Reintroducing myself.
I joined YWBB in March 2008 when my husband passed unexpectedly. I read the site constantly, refreshing pages over and over to see the latest replies from everyone. The Newly Widowed forum was a godsend for me as I tired to make sense of my new life.
It felt like such a sense of accomplishment (in a strange way) to "graduate" to Shock Wears Off then to Beyond the First Year . . . even dipping my toes into Beyond Active Grieving to see where I hoped to be at some point. I even posted occasionally. You guys were amazing at being able to understand, commiserate and even laugh at the absurdity of life as a (no longer so) young widow.
I tried going to some local 'bagos, but there were not that many in my area and then I started feeling like I was too far along to attend the ones that did happen.
I am now just about nine years out. I remember someone posting on BAG (Teal, I think) who was almost that far out when I started. I could not imagine being able to get there, but here I am. I am still trying to figure out this new life. Sometimes my progress is slower than people want (don't even get me started on my parents' plot to set me up on a blind date); but it's my life, not theirs.
Thank you to everyone who restored the website. When I realized YWBB was gone, I really felt the loss and am so appreciative to those of you who worked so hard to bring it back. Is there a way to bring back the content of the old site? I tried the Wayback Machine but very few pages were archived.
Cassandra