IamTed

Hello again everyone, Thank you for taking your time to read my post and more importantly, reply. I hear what you are saying. I have been on a roller-coaster for years and it just isn't ending. She just makes me feel happy. But I know I cause her stress. I will slow down, but I do miss the companionship. I am not taking away from the love of my 22 year marriage, I must add that. My wife put up an amazing fight against leukemia and I admire her for that. Again, I appreciate and welcome all feedback.

Hello, I’m new and looking for advice. Please help if you can offer any support. My wife passed 1 month ago and about 2 weeks after she passed, I started developing “feelings” for a close friend of hers. I started telling the friend that I can see something with us. I have been thinking about this woman nonstop. I love my wife - so what is wrong with me? She has actually taken my mind off grieving for my wife. Is this normal? I am fantasizing about this woman, and I can’t stop trying to persue her. I have guilt over the fact that I don’t have guilt. If that makes sense!?! The woman has a lot of stress over what I’m doing. I wonder if I’m doing this for the wrong reasons. Maybe I’m lonely, maybe I miss being with someone because my wife was sick for 2 years. Maybe I'm losing my mind. Maybe I am actually falling for her? I’m consumed with thoughts of her. She actually makes me happy when I’m feeling like crap. She is telling me to slow down, but I don’t want to. Please help.