Strangely enough, I too have been feeling fragile for the last few days. And, I too just passed the 27 month mark three days ago. Like you, I suppose I'm doing better. Most months I don't even consciously take note on the 25th that another full month has passed. I haven't even felt the need to do more than occasionally lurk these message boards for quite some time. In fact, several months had passed since my last serious sob session. But both those clocks have now been reset .
I have come to realize that I will never get over my husband's death but I am learning to live with the horrible fact. I still don't like it but the truth is that I have been forever changed by his death and I will never be as I was before. Not sure if this is good or bad, it's just my reality.
So maybe there is something about the 27 month mark, who knows? But it is always reassuring to me to know that I am not alone on this terrible journey. Thank you all for sharing your experiences.
