Hi some of you know me from the old board. Finally migrated over here. I am 6 1/2 years out now and was 4 months pregnant with my boy when he passed.
I have never told my boy about his dad. He is 6 now. Dads family has not been around since he was 6 months old. They all took a hike.
My bf has been in the picture for 5 years, he is all my son knows. He calls him Dom not dad.
Recently my mother had told my oldest daughter (10) that she and her therapist feel I am wrong for not telling him.
First of all, its your therapist and your there for a reason, don't discuss me and my decisions when they don't affect you directly.
Second it is highly inappropriate to discuss this with my 10 yr old,
Third its my life my decision.
When my child asks, he will know then, I wont lie to him, At one point he will ask.
Others that have walked the path....... what did you do?
Thanks in advance.