Am not sure many of you will remember me here now. My boyfriend Stuart died of rare cancer in 2005, he was 25, i was 24. I have rebuilt my life, slowly, and feel as if i have healed from the whole experience even if it can knock me for six on special days.
In 2014, my Grandma died after a 6 month deterioration after a fall and Alzheimers. I moved shortly afterwards to live overseas.
Last week, her husband, my Grandad died unexpectedly. He was 94, so this isn't tragic like Stuart. But the shock is unbelievable. I cant concentrate, i am numb, i can't fall to sleep, i wake early.
I know that this will pass of course, it has before, i am just shocked at the depth of this. i think the shock and the fact that he was a huge constant in my life has combined to leave me with that lump in my throat. Something i had forgotten, but oh how familiar it is.....and i get married in 6 weeks, he was due to have his suit fitted today..... leaves me wondering, again, what the point in all of this is.... *sigh*