its been 8 months....8 months - I got sober - ,which in some ways I regret , because now I just feel it all the time, I didnt want to come to this group until I had something positive to contribute, but its not getting better, and the darkness is starting to scare me...the kids have abandoned me completely ....." murderer, you killed our fatther...why didn't you tell us" - these are the postings i just had removed from my face book page, we were married for 15 years ...I adopted two of them, thhey saw their father go from a virulent strong man - to a 93 1lb blind quad that couldnt breath or swallow on his own - they all saw iut - so why am I the murderer now they wont return my calls, give me my DOG, my fucking6 year old Dachshund, they won let me have him after I let them take them during the very end , it was to hard for me to have an animal that needed walking when your soulmate could die at any second - and they wone let me see my grand son , I promised my Husband i would help with the child - but If I am not around how can I- , I already lost him. I moved - I left Austin, I moved to Lawrence KS - I came here to go to nursing school - but was excepted in their art textiles program - so I am going back to study printmaking and textile art - but nothing is better, the pain is so fresh and raw all the time i forget he had been gone for as long as he has been . I miss him more each day m- I am still starving myself and resisting taking meds, i guess in a subconscious hope that the universe just takes me too - I don't care any more - I wouldn't try again - but I cant take the screaming silence anymore - I still here the machines - see him in the corners and wake up EVERY Morning thinking I hear him,I dont think I can take this much longer- I should be better - i am strong - I walked with him for 4 years while his body disintegrated and when I get came time - i did it - I turned off the machines, I am strong - i was able to kill the only thing that ever loved me (for 16 years) but I dont feel like I am strong enough to get through this anymore - If anyone has any advice that would help, I would REALLY appreciate it - its getting dark again...and to all of you going through this too - God be with all of you...