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Lily and I have decided against Disney. She has no interest in rides or the park. Strange kid! We will instead be doing chill things in the Huntington Beach area. If anyone wants to see what we have decided on for the day and join, I welcome company! Have a blast at Disney!!

I think it would be awesome if you came a day earlier and joined us on the beach and for dinner! ;D

Hi all! I am planning on going to Tulum/Riviera Maya/Puerto Morelos September 4th through 10th. (1 year wedding anniversary to spread ashes where we were planning our honeymoon) I'm looking only at all inclusive and preferably adult only resorts. I will go by myself anyway, but just wanted to see if anyone wanted to make it into a Bago. Anyone down for a week in Mexico?

I had all of my husbands boxer briefs put away until I read this post. Now they are all back in his dresser, and damn they are comfy! ;D

Trip is booked! 8)

We have decided on ShoreBreak in Huntington Beach. It looks adorable and it's beach front! We are staying Mon-Sat, because it made the trip way cheaper. YAY!!! Anyone wanna join me on a vacation on the beach? ;D ;D

I tell my puppy I love her 20 plus times a day. I talk to her like she's a human and she is the best listener! I also sleep at the end of my king bed sideways just to spoon her. She gets belly rubs every morning(my therapy) and is just as spoiled as my husband was. I really don't know what I would do without her constant silly and neediness!

I'm sorry! I was there in February, although I knew it was coming...I was just putting it off because I couldn't deal with it so soon after the accident. Hugs!!!

That sounds like a better idea. I will go on the honeymoon we were 3 days from booking! Thank you!!

King here too...with lots of pillows! I'm surrounded by them and spoon my puppy. My confession...I have done nothing but chat with other widows today. I need to shower.

I'm already thinking of the same thing. I think I'm already planning on being a complete shut in on our one year wedding anniversary. In two days it will be a year since he proposed. We got married Sept 6th, 2015 and he was killed 20 days later. His funeral was 4 weeks after our wedding. I understand. <3

That is ridiculous.

They do still meet. There is a dinner in early May. I need more. ;D More friends that get it. I met the most wonderful woman the other day that completely understood my crazy and I'm on a mission.

I'm in Omaha. Anyone else near by? I'm super down for lunch, hiking...really anything that gets me out of my house. ;D

My 14 year old daughter and I are a definite now. Thinking about looking for an all inclusive beach resort deal so we can do Disney on the 21st and lounge on the beach for a few days. I am so fucking excited! Finally something to look forward to! ;D

This sounds like exactly what my daughter and I need! I was hoping to plan a vacation that same week. We are a strong maybe. ;D

Fuck in-laws, sister in-laws and anyone else that wants to tell me I'm a disappointment as a widow. Who the hell do they think they are??

Thank you all! Holding up...I'm working on it. Just yesterday I was told I'm destroying my husbands eternal resting place. His mom said this. She also told me she is so disappointed and Ryan would be devastated. The reason? His sister wants their grandfather's gun, and I told her no problem as long as we sign paperwork to make it legal. I may have told them to stop pushing me around because it will get them nowhere. I'm very lucky my own family is so damn understanding.

I'll jump, I love saying fuck. Fuck old people that should not be driving. Fuck that old man for not paying attention to the road and causing the major accident that killed my soul mate. Fuck the state of Iowa for having fucked up laws. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. That felt nice, thank you.

Hi all. I am so grateful I was introduced to this group by a widow sister! Here's my story. http://www.wowt.com/home/headlines/A-Life-Lost-and-a-Man-Remembered-330477321.html Love and light, Chrissy