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I'm sorry you had to join the group. Were you together long before you were married? I am new to this group as well..age 33. It's definately a roller coaster. One day at a time

James Authur-Say you won't let go Can't get thru w/o breaking down but I cant stop listening

SD I feel your pain, everything you are writing I feel as if I'm experiencing at this very moment. I too have 2 small children and they seem to be what keeps me going day to day. My daughter also lost her very 1st tooth only a couple weeks after, something we were working on pulling for a while so her daddy would have been proud. She learned to swim that same week and even had her 1st sleepover at a friends house. She was "daddy's girl" so I know it really hurts her not to be able to share that with him. Even my son at 2 just comes out with stuff sometimes of his memories with his dad...I hope he always remembers but sadly all he will have are the photos and things I've boxed up for him to have someday. My DH's accident was also only 4 houses from my inlaws. His parents have helped me with so much thru all of this and I am so grateful to have them close. They each have retired now and are taking care of watching the kids and getting them to school which I know is extremely stressful by itself let alone everything else we are dealing with. I hope we each feel some comfort in these days to come ahead. 《Hugs》

Hi, I'm Sara..just joined the group. It's been 3months next week and it just doesn't seem real. We met 14 yrs ago at work and were a perfect match. I was alone by our 9th yr wedding anniversary with our two beautiful children who are only 2 and 6. Hard to fathom being a single parent to raise them on my own now. He was the kind of guy that would tell you exactly what he thought without holding anything back but he would also make sure that each person he loved felt like family. We just bought the home of our dreams last year, the place we wanted to raise our young family in. This is same house he grew up in and the same place we had our first kiss several years before. It was fate we thought, that it just happened to be on the market when we couldnt find anything else that fit what we wanted. We were so happy...how quickly life can change. We were at his parents new home having a usual Sunday family dinner when he decided he wanted to take out their atv for a ride up the road. When we heard the sirens and then ambulance coming up the road we knew it wasn't right..my heart sank, I knew it was for him. I drove up to the scene to find his body in a ditch. He had struck a telephone pole and died instantly at 35 yrs old. We had so many more memories to make. My heart is broken. I've had a hard time trying to deal with all the insurance and mess that needs to be taken care of on top of trying to find a new somewhat normalcy for me and my babies. Someone told me I should look into this site to find others with similar situations. I have read some threads and I can see that you will all help me with what I'm feeling just reading how others were able to cope