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  • Date Widowed
    02/04/2014
  • Name of Spouse
    Phil
  • Date Widowed
    2/4/14
  • Cause of death
    Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia
  • Spouse's Age
    39


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  1. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    Congratulations Leadfeather! I'm happy for you!
  2. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    I agree Arneal. It's a great way to describe that comfortable feeling with him. I'm sure it will come up again and I will elaborate more. That's why it's so nice to share here. We all have similar thoughts and feelings.
  3. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    I agree Leadfeather. Comfort is a level of peace.
  4. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    NG said I seem very guarded. I said I wouldn't disagree. My last relationship ended soon after he said I love you and I didn't say it back. Of course I've thought about that a lot. Was it because I didn't feel that way for him, or is it because I won't allow myself to feel that way for anyone? Am I ready? My NG asked if it was because I thought it would somehow take away from what I had with my LH. I wasn't sure how to respond to that. I honestly don't know. Maybe like you said it's just feeling vulnerable again. I told him that I look forward to spending time with him, and enjoy the time we spend together. I'm comfortable where we're at and going slow. He really dislikes me using the word comfortable. It's become an inside joke between us. I think comfortable is a positive way to describe our relationship, but he thinks it sounds complacent. He did say that he is fine with going slow.
  5. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    Just an update, the birthday dinner with his family went really well. We've been seeing each other a lot since. Our kids are always asking when we are going to get together. They like spending time together. His mother and brothers asked where I was when he was with them for Thanksgiving. We decided to celebrate separately for now. We didn't want to introduce our kids to our extended families yet. So far so good, but I'm always skeptical. Why is that?
  6. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    He invited me to his mother's birthday party Saturday. I mentioned that it would probably be better for me to meet his children before I met his extended family. Instead of meeting them all at the same time. He agreed and suggested that I meet his kids tonight. They have been asking to meet me. It seems a little fast, but comfortable at the same time. I took my youngest daughter with me. Surprisingly our kids weren't awkward around each other at all. It was a fun evening.
  7. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    That's not very hopeful Arneal, but I agree. They just have different issues. I hope things settle down. She doesn't know about me yet, so that should be interesting too.
  8. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    SW...you just never know. Just take it one day at a time and enjoy his company. The last time I updated I had two dates in one day. I canceled the afternoon date because I dated him before. I decided not to go backwards. I stopped dating him for a reason. I did go on my evening date, but it was our last. My choice, a lot of red flags for me. I decided to go on a lunch date a few days later with a guy I had been talking to. I'll be honest, I had been hesitant to meet with him. He has 5 children, which is a little intimidating to me. I have 3 daughters myself. Our coffee meet turned into lunch at another location right after. We've been seeing each other quite a bit. I actually spent most of my weekend with him. He's been divorced for almost 2 years, but has been having a lot of issues with his ex. I'm not sure if I'm up for the drama.
  9. Virgo

    New Relationships....Post a Pic

    Congratulations Rob!
  10. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    Sw, did you have fun? I'm meeting one guy in the afternoon, and then the other in the evening.
  11. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    Have fun practicing! I am seeing two guys Saturday. I hope that all works out.
  12. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    Hopefully the weirdo gets bored and moves on. No dates recently?
  13. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    SW...do you have an update?
  14. Virgo

    Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!

    I took my middle daughter to Ft. Wayne today. We went shopping, each got a trucus piercing, had dinner, and then went to see White Reaper and the Struts. Fun day! Tuesday I took my youngest daughter to see our first Blackhawks game in Columbus. Then Wednesday we went to the Columbus zoo. So much fun! Now my oldest needs to plan a mother/daughter trip.
  15. Virgo

    Some Advice??

    The only thing you can do is be honest with them about how their actions make other people feel. They can deny their actions, but they can't really dismiss everyone's feelings.

About Virgo

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Personal Information

  • Date Widowed
    02/04/2014
  • Name of Spouse
    Phil
  • Date Widowed
    2/4/14
  • Cause of death
    Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia
  • Spouse's Age
    39


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