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  1. Virgo

    You Spelled Out The Words For Me

    I agree! I mostly read in the first few months. Then I started responding and starting topics. Sharing here helps me sort through thoughts I know most of my loved ones won't understand. Not like the members here do. ❤
  2. Virgo

    Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!

    I'm on my own tonight. My 19yo and 16yo are working, and my 10yo is staying with her grandparents. I'm catching up on laundry and cleaning. I might go out later tonight, but more than likely I'll stay home and work on my homework. I really should go out though. We'll see.
  3. Virgo

    Having a week

    I'm sorry you're having anxiety attacks. Hopefully that lessens for you. My Jeep is a 2007, 126,000 miles. It's to that point where you have to decide if the repair is worth the cost. A new transmission wouldn't be. I'll have to see what I can do with the water heater. Maybe troubleshoot online between studying and laundry. Ha!
  4. Virgo

    Having a week

    You know, those weeks where everything happens all at once. Making you feel overwhelmed, alone, and missing your partner in crime. I started an accelerated college course this week. It's the equivalent to a 12 week course at the college, so 12 weeks of information in 12 days. I have homework every evening and exams every morning. That on top of the daily life with my three daughters. Of course more has been added on to spice things up. My water heater started leaking earlier this week. Since I didn't have class today I went out and bought a new one. Delivery date yet to be determined. On my way home my check engine light came on in my Jeep. So, I stopped by a shop to have them run a diagnostic. The results were all transmission codes. I have an appointment for that Monday morning. I have school though, so I have to ask someone else to take it in for me. I'll be driving my daughter's car to school. I'm hoping that my transmission does not need replaced. I really don't want to shop for a new vehicle right now. Thanks for letting me vent. Just a little overwhelmed. Bad timing! Still smiling though.
  5. Virgo

    Mixed Feelings

    I'm sorry they never chose to include you. I'm sure that was hard on you and your kids. I am grateful that they include us, but I just wish it was away from the cameras. We're all going to try to make it except for my oldest. She is refusing to go.
  6. Virgo

    Mixed Feelings

    That is all so true. It just seems so impersonal.
  7. Virgo

    Mixed Feelings

    My late husband was a K9 officer. Tuesday his police department is having a police officer memorial service. They want my daughters to be a part of the service. They want them to lay roses down on his memorial marker. Part of me is honored and grateful that they want to do something to acknowledge him. The other part is disappointed that the only time they reach out is if it's seen by the public eye. I don't appreciate my daughters being used as a public relations stunt. Why can't they do this part of the ceremony for family and his fellow officers before the camera crews show up? My mother in law of course is honored and wants to be involved too. She thinks we should all be there. My 18yo is scheduled to work and refusing to go. My 15yo has a choir practice, but I can pull her out. She's undecided. My 10yo says she'll participate if her sisters do. I am starting school Monday, so I wouldn't be able to be there until later. More than likely after the part of the ceremony where they would honor him.
  8. These are all great questions which I'm sure will get mixed responses to. I'm not in a relationship, but I've asked myself the same questions. In a lot of ways not being married makes more sense financially for ourselves and our children. I'm not sure what I'll decide if and when that time comes. My opinion is that it's your choice. You two define your relationship. What other people think wouldn't even be a factor in my decision making process. Congratulations to you both!
  9. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    For those of you who don't know me I haven't ventured into online dating. I'm honestly not sure that I ever will. I have been dating though. I think I'm ready for another break. I took a break last May. Sort of ironic. Then I met the guy I was dating in August (on my birthday). We ended things a few weeks ago. I'm starting a certification program next Monday, so I'm guessing that I won't have much time for dating anyway.
  10. Virgo

    Update to the Update

    I'm glad you got some closure. Hopefully he pays what he owes you so you don't have to see him again.
  11. Virgo

    Moments

    It is definitely bittersweet. I have three daughters, but I see their dad in all of them. Their mannerisms, repeating things their dad always said. My oldest daughter looks the most like her dad. Fair skin, freckles, strawberry blonde hair. She has his temperament too.
  12. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    I'm sorry it didn't work out LF.
  13. Virgo

    Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!

    I went out to a local Mexican restaurant to listen to a band. My 18yo and 16yo work there. It was fun seeing them, and of course I always get great service. Several of their coworkers came up to me and said how much they adore my girls.
  14. This is so true! I wanted to say that I've also described my first year as numb/robotic. The second year was when my new life started to really sink in. The third year I started doing more for myself. 2/4 will be 5 years for me.
  15. Virgo

    Grade 3 inoperable glioma

    I'm sorry to hear about your friend. I agree with everyone saying not to be a stranger. Ask them what they need. Tell them you are willing to help in any way. They might be overwhelmed now, but that support will fade quickly. My husband was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia. He had aggressive chemo treatments immediately. The local hospital transfered him to a cancer center three hours from where we lived. I stayed with him there for three weeks. He always took care of our finances, so I brought all of that with me. He showed me how he did things. By the time we went home I basically took over our finances so he didn't have to worry about it. Maybe approach the topic in a different way. Remind him that he is going to have bad days during treatment. Days where he won't feel up to doing much at all. It would be one less thing for him to worry about, and it would be beneficial to his wife to know how he does things. One less thing for her to worry about as she helps care for him. Then he can take over the finances when he's up to it.

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