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  • Date Widowed
    02/04/2014
  • Name of Spouse
    Phil
  • Date Widowed
    2/4/14
  • Cause of death
    Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia
  • Spouse's Age
    39


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  1. I started donating blood around those sad dates. My husband received a lot of whole blood and platelets during his treatment. He was told he would not be able to donate blood anymore because he received chemotherapy. I promised him that I would always donate with him by my side or not. I have an appointment the 30th to donate. My middle daughter is going with me. It will be her first time.
  2. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    That's a great attitude to have. Family isn't just blood. I hope you all stay close.
  3. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    I just read the article and I can definitely relate to Phase 2. Thanks for sharing Leadfeather!
  4. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    Love2fish I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad you two had each other even for a short time.
  5. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    I'm worried that they'll get attached and things won't work out. I guess I have no control over that though.
  6. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    You've just echoed what my girlfriends have been telling me. You're also right about me feeling like it won't last. He is the only man that I've been with other than my LH who makes me feel vulnerable. Thanks for talking, and the well wishes. Why are you down?
  7. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    I normally don't involve my girls, but since he and I dated for 8 months before we started involving them. Mostly just spending time hanging out at his house. My daughters are 19,17,and 11. It's my 11 year old that I worry about the most. It's funny, when we started talking again my girls just knew. They saw me smiling and laughing while I was on the phone and they excitedly asked, "are you talking to M? You only smile like that when you're talking to M." I tell them that he's a great guy, I like him a lot, but right now we're just friends. We're enjoying spending time together. Yesterday we went out for breakfast and spent a few hours together. Then we went about our day. After my 11 year old and I went grocery shopping he suggested that we drop by his house on our way home for a bit. We ended up staying a few hours. My daughter ended up baking with him. It was sweet, but this is what worries me.
  8. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    We stopped seeing each other in April last year after he said "I love you" and I didn't say it back. We had been dating for 8 months. I had feelings for him, but I was keeping him at arms length. Saying I love you still felt like a betrayal to my LH for me. I just wasn't ready. He was also processing a breakup from a 4 year relationship. We reconnected in August, but weren't really consistent. I'm trying to just take it day by day, enjoy spending time with him. He's the only guy I've dated that I've ever been able to envision a future with. He's a great guy. My daughters like him too, which makes seeing him again more challenging too.
  9. Virgo

    On line dating vents and laughs......

    I started talking to my ex. Maybe it's just me being vulnerable right now, or maybe it's me hoping it was our timing before. We started talking more in January, but after my dad died in February we started seeing each other again.
  10. Virgo

    Hoarding?

    There has been an interesting correlation between the alcoholics in our family and hoarding too. My dad was an alcoholic, but also a widower. The last two years of his life he was sober. He stopped hoarding too.
  11. Virgo

    I'm an orphan

    Tybec, after making phone calls today I can definitely see it's going to be a longer process than I thought it would be. Thank you for sharing. I made an appointment with an attorney who was recommended to me. Her earliest availability was March 21st. Until then I'll work on clearing out his house.
  12. Virgo

    I'm an orphan

    My dad did have a will. I'm the executor. My brother and I also had guardianship of my dad. We were told both that and POA are null and void upon death. This is all new to me. I really appreciate all of the input. My brother will be helping me as soon as he gets home from his cruise. I just want to get things done and not prolong it. I'm going to contact an attorney tomorrow. Thank you everyone for the condolences and advice!
  13. Virgo

    Sexy Widowed Saturday Night!

    No kids at home tonight, but I'm not going out. I'm drained from all the running around I've been doing this week for my dad's arrangements and estate. I need to catch up around my house, but I'm not very motivated. What is everyone else doing?
  14. Virgo

    I'm an orphan

    Thank you for the condolences and advice. I truly appreciate it.
  15. Virgo

    I'm an orphan

    My dad passed away yesterday in his home. March 13th would have been his 69th birthday. It was somewhat unexpected. He had multiple mini strokes about three years ago, so we always knew it was possible for him to have a major stroke. It just kills me to think about the last time I saw him in person, our last words, if I would have seen him Monday would it have made a difference? Why do we do that to ourselves? The 5th anniversary of my husband's death was the 4th. My mom died three months prior. When I told my daughters their grandpa had died their reactions at first were almost frightening. Very calm, no expressions, almost like they are used to it. Heartbreaking. My 19yo did say that her grandpa is finally happy now that he's been reunited with her grandma. When my mom died my dad took care of the arrangements. I helped him go through her possessions and clean the house. When my husband died I took care of his arrangements and went through his possessions and redecorated our house. Now that my dad has died I'm making some of the arrangements and will have to clear out my childhood home. Then put it up for sale. I also have to take care of his finances and estate. It's very overwhelming, and different from what I had to take care of before. Hopefully my brother will help me. Any tips or suggestions for those of you that have been through this? Thanks in advance!

About Virgo

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Personal Information

  • Date Widowed
    02/04/2014
  • Name of Spouse
    Phil
  • Date Widowed
    2/4/14
  • Cause of death
    Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia
  • Spouse's Age
    39


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