Rob, I wish I still had him too, thank you.... I am thankful they are now 10 years old (will be 11 next month), and I did have him through all the really hard years. Although, the teen years will not be a breeze, I am sure!
Twins are just as busy as triplets though:) My sister has twins that are 3 months younger than my kiddo's, so I watched her in action. Her twins were actually more work than my group!
Non sequitor, but ... triplets? Wow. I have twins, and we were in a multiples club and so we knew parents of triplets, and we were always impressed since that was more kids than parents, and more kids than hands :-) Hats off for handling this alone - I wish you still had your husband's help (hugs).
Take care,
Rob T