bumbleb Posted August 15, 2015 Share Posted August 15, 2015 So, I'm switching depts @my work. The new CFO and I just don't get along. And its not my fault, he's really rude to me and I try, I really try, to step above it. I've never snapped back at him, I'm incredibly polite, but, I could knock him out. Backstory: I interviewed for 2 positions at my university, one as front desk in the finance offices, the other one as a data entry/grant asst. Both depts offered me a job- finance called me first. But I "clicked" better w/the grant/data entry people. Since I'm getting my degree in acct this fall, I would be happy to work in either dept., finance called first. Things went great, I was very busy. Then the new cfo showed up, fired my supervisor, re-ordered duties, the whole drill. I was good with the changes, then all my work went away b/c of the restructuring. I went from being busy to nothing. Plus, the cfo was rude to me, our personalities never meshed. So I kept running into the data entry dept people and they kept telling me to transfer over, so I am. The cfo informed me Weds that he was bringing in his new secretary soon, I told him great, can I apply for a transfer? The grant department would really like to have me. He was a little stunned, and I smirked like an asshole. So the paperwork is processing and I'm super excited. I'll be over there in a week. I'll get to help design databases and work on grant research/writing and accounting. Whew! What a long lead in to my evolution/actualization at this point in my grief journey. Realization: I want to do what I want to do and I'll do it. I'm not going to tolerate shit behaviour towards me from anyone, no matter your title. And I dont want to waste anyones time. Getting up every morning and going thru that whole process, to just do nothing but the bare basics at work-no. Then deal with his rude ass-no-no-at earning barely above min. wage-no-no-no-I'm not going to waste my time. Mentally, physically, all around "my universe"-I have other things to do. And I'm selfish about my time, I have to be. It's this juggle of school, kids, family, life, widowhood that's made me appreciate, me. I don't quite love myself like I should, SOS widowhood was a brutal blow to my ego. But I tolerate myself better now, my quirks and all. It's been a hard journey, but I look back at what I was dealt with and I understand it will continue in a different manner. It will evolve, I'll evolve with it. That's all I can do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CJF Posted August 16, 2015 Share Posted August 16, 2015 Good for you for not taking crap and going after what you want!! I agree. Widowhood has made me less willing to put up with poor treatment from others. Good luck with your new position!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest mawidow Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 I love your focus on evolving. It's all we can do. Sending much support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Needytoo Posted August 18, 2015 Share Posted August 18, 2015 You go girl you are inspirational. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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