MissingSquish Posted August 30, 2015 Share Posted August 30, 2015 I was laying in bed last night when I realized something very bizarre. I knew Squish for 3 years, 3 months. I met him February 18, 2009 and he died May 20, 2012. Pru died August 18, 2015, making her death approximately the point at which I will have been widowed for as long as I've known Squish. I met her on Squish and I's first date, so I knew her for a total of 6 years 6 months. Funny how math and timing works out like that. I don't believe in coincidences, but have no clue what this means. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenHeart2 Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Hey MS I do that kind of math thing in my head too. For me with my DH husband everything is 30. With my Dad death 26 yrs ago the number was 3. Weird. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoVerySad Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Sometimes I feel like there must be connections that I overlook or can't figure out. I wish someone could decipher things for me, because finding those connections gives me a sense of comfort. Sending you hugs, MS... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rifatheroffour Posted August 31, 2015 Share Posted August 31, 2015 Numbers are odd that way. I can't decide these days if it's communication from beyond or pure happenstance. My wife died 1/13/13. 13 shows up all over for us. Twice it was the number of my son's participation order in a school function. On one mothers day my oldest ordered a sandwich at Dunkin, which he never does, my daughter noticed it was a #13, then our bill that morning was $13.13. Our big European trip last year had 13 family members attending. Most recently I dropped my son off at college. I took some photos to send to the family and when I had some time I sent out the mass email. 20 minutes later my SIL texts me asking if I intentionally sent the email at 1:13pm or 13:13 hours military time. Um no I did not... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lcoxwell Posted September 1, 2015 Share Posted September 1, 2015 I think about connections, too, whether the connection is through numbers or some other connection. Kenneth and I had a connection with the number 13, as well. On March 10th, 2001, I said goodbye for the very first time, when I flew out to visit him and then flew back to NC (in order to pack my things and move to CA to be with him). On March 10th, 2014, exactly 13 years later, I said goodbye for the final time, when he died. I sure miss that man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissingSquish Posted September 2, 2015 Author Share Posted September 2, 2015 Thanks everyone. Sending hugs to all for the math around significant dates. I wish I had more to say right now. Just picked up her cremains at the vet. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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