robunknown Posted March 13, 2015 Share Posted March 13, 2015 My immune system held out during the really busy months after DW passed, October (Lots of important personal dates), November, & December (Holidays). Since Mid-January I have a cold for two weeks, followed by a week of feeling better, then back to two weeks for a cold. I had heard that your immunity takes a hit after being widowed for about a year, but I thought I was able to squeak by. Silly me. I've been eating really well since before DW passed and have been exercising. I guess that mental stress catches up. Anyone else experience this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartbrokenDad Posted March 13, 2015 Share Posted March 13, 2015 The day that DW passed I was starting to come down with a little cold, she had just gotten over it. The next three months I caught every bug I came in contact with. Amazing that my daughter did not have so much as a sniffle in the same time. Then I was good for about 1.5 months. Then I made the mistake of shaking hands with a candidate we had in for an interview at the office. Have had another round of colds for the last month. I'm on a strict no touching door handles or shaking hands policy now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lcoxwell Posted March 13, 2015 Share Posted March 13, 2015 I seriously started to post something about this last night. For years, I was going I n and out of the ER, hospitals, doctors offices, etc. with my Kenneth; I was exposed to MRSA (a form of staff infection that's resistant to medications - nasty stuff); and I was surrounded by students getting sick, every time a new "bug" started making the rounds. In all that time, the only time I got sick, except for my migraines, was with the occasional mild cold. Since my Kenneth died, I have had several colds, an ear infection (hadn't had one of those in about 40 years), a couple of stomach viruses, and yesterday, I went to the doctor and was told I have both the flu AND bronchitis simultaneously (as if having one of those at a time wouldn't be enough). The last time I went to see my grief counselor, a few days ago, I mentioned that I had been sicker this year than I had ever remembered being in my entire life. He, also, said this was normal. I have to say, if this is "normal", I would really like to be "abnormal" for a while. On the plus side, between the illnesses and antibiotics, that tear up my stomach and kill my appetite, I should be looking pretty good for swimsuit and shorts weather this year (minus the dark circles under my eyes and sickly pallor of my skin - but we can't have everything, can we?). :-\ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allan Posted March 13, 2015 Share Posted March 13, 2015 Spent 13yrs being sick free and along with icoxwell bam I've experienced a year and a half bs gout, back pain arthritis it's like now she is not here life has said what do you think of this .Or my Katie looked after me and I was ignorant who knows. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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