Guest TooSoon Posted December 6, 2015 Share Posted December 6, 2015 Tonight I had my boss/friend and her husband over for dinner; it is a complex relationship because she has been my boss for 8 years, thus through the dark times when i was a "problem" employee, but she has also been my friend, coming almost daily to hospice to sit by my side or Scott's side when I couldn't be there. It has been a tricky negotiation for us both, my feeling like I was letting her down as an employee and her feeling like I was shutting her out as a friend. I rarely have company, and I rarely go out. It was so nice. We spent the day getting the house ready and got our tree up. They were ostensibly here for a Hanukkah celebration; though we all got the dates wrong, it is a tradition we've had for 4 years (they are Jewish; we are not but we started doing this when Scott was sick and we didn't know if he'd make it to Christmas). We played dreidel and they read to M while I cooked latkes and we ate in the Dining Room, otherwise known as "the room that contains the table where I put unopened mail and piles of papers to grade." We drank wine and chatted while M decorated our tree. It was really nice. I know she's been going through a hard time and that it meant a lot that we gave them the respite of some distraction, change of scenery and a few laughs. I get so lost or so busy sometimes, and I forget how important it is to connect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoVerySad Posted December 6, 2015 Share Posted December 6, 2015 I'm so glad you had a good evening, TS! Love and hugs... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Mel4072 Posted December 6, 2015 Share Posted December 6, 2015 I've recently found a depth in my heart that I had closed off. I feel peace with Christmas this year. I'm excited about it, looking forward to it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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