still_lost Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 My husband died seven years ago. Why do I seem to feel worse now than I did years ago? I go to work every day, take care of my child, but I feel like I am physically and emotionally worse off than I was in prior years. I don't want to cook as much, socialize, be around people, etc...I wasn't like this years ago. I guess it's really taking a toll on me now. I have my child to live for, but he will grow up and leave one day, then what next?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SemperFidelis Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 Yeah.... :-\ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sikeuritgadeun Posted November 28, 2016 Share Posted November 28, 2016 I Know, seven years for me too and I feel the same. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RemysWife Posted December 19, 2016 Share Posted December 19, 2016 Five years here... I don't necessarily feel like it is worse so much as there is always a new way that it hurts. Memories find new ways to haunt me. Loneliness feels a bit sharper. When I think I have gotten past the hard stuff there is something else that happens. I never imagined that five years later, I would still look at my life and have no idea how I ended up here. I'm not necessarily unhappy, but I'm not happy either. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladybug Posted December 20, 2016 Share Posted December 20, 2016 I understand the feeling of not being unhappy, but not happy either.......hope that makes sense.....thanks for sharing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest wecouldbeheros Posted December 30, 2016 Share Posted December 30, 2016 I think it might be the seven year thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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