Gabzmom
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Oh, I am so sorry for your son and your loss. He has a compassionate heart and yes, it really does suck that he has to live with having lost his mom. Hugs to you both.
ETA: I also meant to add that he's also lucky to have a dad that takes his grief into consideration and takes him to visit his mom's grave.
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Thank you for sharing. It is so very deep and yes, "our sorrow is inseparable from our joy."
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Peace and hugs, Bear.
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BTT - anyone out there? 8)
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Hugs, Rob. Happy birthday to Michelle.
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Hugs, Rob. Happy birthday to Michelle.
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I think the part that has me particularly bothered and offended is that a supervisor would speak in such a manner to his employee, an 18 year old young lady. How inappropriate of him. He demonstrates a lack of maturity and a lack of class.
With that said, continue to hold your head high.
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I don't know. My daughter is/was very close to her dad. They had a very special relationship and I do no wish to remove his pictures. Additionally there is this one big thing - the flag that draped his casket is folded in a case with some medals, pins, dog tags. It sits on top of our piano. I suppose I could re-create what I jokingly called DH's "me wall" with his trophy's plaques, etc. A lot of his plaques sit leaning against a wall. Looking to gift some of these to his brothers. However, my daughter has voiced and interest in her keeping them.
To add to that, we are leaving this month for a few days to visit in-laws and to attend his induction into his high school Athletic Hall of Fame. If there is a plaque or award, my daughter will accept with her grandfather. She will likely take this home.
I still have my wedding pic on my dresser and quite a few pics of DH with daughter. I never liked my photo being taken.
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The seasons have a big effect on me. Our rainy falls and the loss of leaves in the trees leaves me feeling down until holiday lights are put up.
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I don't know that I have any words of wisdom. I participated in a parent group while our children processed their grief in their own groups. Often I found myself reeling from the stories and grieving with others.
I wish you the best and I am sure your BIL appreciates your support. Remember to be kind to yourself. You are still in your own grief journey. Hugs - I am sorry for your loss.
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Sending you hugs. I am so sorry.
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First - congratulations. You have worked hard for this and are so very deserving! Second, it really is hard to be "everything" in a world that has gotten increasingly busier.
You aren't alone in this. I am just now thinking - hey, I have a handle. And interestingly, I have come to realize that my forgetfulness these days may not just be a result of overload. It might have to do with that darn anti-anxiety pill I take at night. It helps me sleep but I am so groggy in the morning. So back to the doctor to figure things out.
In the meantime, please breathe and who cares if the house is a mess? I am embarrassed to invite people over. How can I not stay on top of things? There are only two of us and two dogs. So breathe. Hugs. And you will be fabulous!
ETA: You already are fabulous.
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So very good to see you!
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What a lovely, shared moment!
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Ah! In reading you post, I realized I did the same last year. Had the exterior painted. Then out of no where, I lost patience and had my downstairs carpet ripped out and put in new floors to match existing hardwoods. Done! If I wasn't worn out, I'd put sprinklers in the lawn...
ETA: This came after two years of being muddled and indecisive about everything.
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Great photos! Congratulations!
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Sorry, it's been crazy in my world. Here's a link on what I found.
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9/11 has always triggered strong emotions for me even before the death of dh. However, this time it feels a bit softer. I think, perhaps it's because I had gone to the 9/11 memorial earlier this year and that visit was so scathingly raw for me.
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Sounds great. I have been reading and skipped ahead a little to read Chapter 5, which I found very interesting. I found some discussion questions online. Maybe we can start there?
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My husband has a ton of awards, ribbons, plaques from both military service and he. He held the school record for the mile for over 25 years. A friend suggested I ask parents, brothers if they want anything. Then my daughter spoke up and said she wanted most of it. So here I sit with a huge run worth of plaques.
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PJ! I have wondered about how you are doing. Your news is great to hear! Wishing you the best as you move forward!
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I am so sorry! I have been to a couple as far as friends. But a few weeks ago, my cousin passed. It brought back all kinds of emotions: fear, anxiety, waves of grief. He and I were no longer close but his death triggered grief and sadness for the loss of my husband. The difference this time around is that I let myself feel the sadness.
I am sorry you are hurting but I do think you will be able to offer your BIL perspective and even guidance. Peace.
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I decided to try out the kindle. I have it and am ready to go!
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I attended this get together in Seattle. I think there were 9 of us? It was my second as I attended a lunch in Manhattan. I really enjoyed meeting others who share our unfortunate circumstance.
Proud mama moment
in Young Widowed Parents
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Congrats on your son's nomination! Wishing him the best.