So I am hitting another first - summer without my husband. My husband died 3 days into the school year. I teach and I have two in grade school and one under the age of two. We had a system and a routine, FINALLY. Now it's all screwed up. This is our first summer without him and I hate it. All I do is think about him. I am into day 4 of summer break and it sucks. Working, taking care of three kids, running around, doing everyday things well it wears you out (apparently I like that because I'm busy).Now I am just grasping at things to do and keep me busy. I hate changing who I was. I used to be a homebody. I could stay at home for days and be perfectly content. Now I need to go, get out, do something, keep busy. Why do I have to change me when I liked me just fine. In order for me to be at peace, I need to go go go or do do do. I loved sleep now I function on less sleep and seem to be fine. But now I have no job to wake up to because I'm on break and it sucks.
Jennica