Excellent article canadiangirl, thank you for sharing.
I must confess, I have a kindle full of self-help-happy books that I have leaned on quite a bit since being widowed. In the early months, when I was really on-fire, it was hard to imagine comfort, let alone happiness. I grasped for anything that promised a new-improved-happy-laughing "me" by the end of the book. So this article really struck a chord in me; And I'm certain i would enjoy their book.
Admittedly, this part made me laugh:
In the meantime, the Bennetts offer easily digestible suggestions on managing negative states or emotions, among them: ?Act decently in spite of the way you really feel.? Get to know your inner asshole so as to reduce the likelihood it becomes outer.?
Once again, great share... Thank you!