Trying Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 This is the third birthday he is not here for, the third Super Bowl he missed was last night. Time has become such a strange thing these past 2 1/2 years. It seems impossible he has been gone so long yet it feels like it was another lifetime that he was here. I've been missing him a lot lately but I'm also having more trouble feeling him, like his spirit has been slipping away and we are less connected. I've been feeling like I need to slow down and allow myself time to let all of the memories in and sure enough I woke up today to school being closed for pending snow. Thank you Tim for this gift of a quiet day at home to lean into my love and my grief. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torn Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 Trying, Obviously I hate you have to experience this terrible loss aswell. I'm at 1 year 9 months & just passed my wife's birthday my 2nd without her on thanksgiving; I mention that to say I also feel like I'm loosing her spirit. It feels wrong that I'm loosing touch BUT: It makes it possible for me mentally to at least see the future without her,sadly that's fact for us both. I've been trying to view this "stage" more so as progression,than loss.... Just a thought & even typing it feels wrong Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captains wife Posted February 8, 2016 Share Posted February 8, 2016 I'm happy for a slow snow day too. I hear what u r saying....sometimes their presence seems a lifetime ago. Time just keeps going but they aren't here : ( I hope you get some peace with your quiet time today. Hugs.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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