Do I have to take off my rings?...

[beth_krkswidow]

@Ursula,  I love that

It's your finger and your ring. I are free to do what feels right for you and only you. I hope you find a way that feels right.

 

I wore my wedding ring in its true place for two and a half years.  This summer I bought myself a ring which I wear on the wedding ring finger. Sometimes I wear my wedding ring. I got married and was not asked to unmarry. If ever there is anyone else who gives me a ring, it's got to go on another finger.  I've got ten. This one was meant for Alex. Maybe that will change, who knows. I have never believed in dogma.

[jgib]

I agree, your ring, your finger.

I have lost my dad, oldest sister, my mom and then my husband all in a 4 year period.  I had my dads wedding band, a birth stone ring from my mom (we share the same birth stone), a bracelet from my sister and the rings my husband bought for me all made into one ring.  I love it.  They are all close to me on the middle finger of my left hand.  Even the finger seems appropriate as they give me the strength to wave it at the world if I need too.....