I can completely relate to the thoughts . I am only just under a month in and all I can think about is sex! I feel terrible about it but I also think its my coping mechanism as if I think about nice and pleasurable things I don't have to deal with the sad bits. I also think that the past 9 months haven't been active due to my DH have chemo and side affects, so maybe part of it is the itch that needs to be scratched!!