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I've found the empathy of those who understand to be a very comforting thing.

Funny how we can be plugging away about our daily life and all at once have a sense of their presence. Many people find it restorative and energizing to spend time appreciating the beauty of nature. I never know what will bring out the emotions.

robunknown, I'm sorry for your pain, especially with a little one in tow. Like you, I've been looking for the Grief Express lane for a faster easier checkout and as hard as it is, we have to surrender to the pain of grief. As Helen Keller said, "The only way to the other side is through."

Sounds wonderful, sending positive thoughts your way!

In the US we have OSHA that is very effective at getting laws and regulations on the books to improve worker safety. I'm sure there is a similar agency down your way. It would be wonderful to have something positive as a result of your heart breaking loss, good luck.

{hugs} Sandy. I'm sorry, your whole world has been spun into chaos. Your emotions may crash in on you once all the kerfuffle dies down and you have a chance to begin to process your huge loss. James E. Miller said "If you remember nothing else as you begin to grieve, remember this: you will grieve in your own unique way, unlike anyone else. And that is as it should be. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise."

Congratulations, believing with faith that the light of hope and happiness does exist.

Hi Bluemoon15, I'm sorry you and your son have suffered the loss of your husband. None of us chose this new phase of life but we can lift one another up for comfort, understanding and hopefully some healing along this painful path.

I'll hang onto this raft until my knuckles turn white. 6 months out for me this week, but not ready to be weaned off the nourishment I receive from everyone. Off topic - I love the capital W logo formed by a two handed pinky swear, does anyone know if it has meaning or am I just over thinking it?

As I channel my inner Deadhead, "What a long strange trip it's been" Thank you so much Jezzy and everyone who pulled this off. Friday evening I sent a farewell message for @Justin to be sure he had my email addy to stay in touch. Saturday morning I get his return email "New Board!" Wow, this is exciting for someone only 6 months out to realize they're not going to bob around aimlessly in the widow sea. I can't get everything from therapy and need this forum for some real world balance.

1. Thankful for this new haven.

2. I'm blessed with health.

3. My broken heart is slowly beginning to mend.

She loved her Irish heritage. Celtic Trinity knot with heart; the words "Anam Cara" are Gaelic for Soul Mate

Much better, thanks!

This was her normal look, comfy clothes, little or no make-up and free fall hair.   

?In every heart there is an inner room, where we can hold our greatest treasures and our deepest pain.? ? Marianne Williamson