Popped over to widda.org for the same reason. Just passed 3 year mark and life still seems colorless. I totally get the feeling less engaged with your kids. Our dynamic got changed without our permission.
I am also frustrated with ywbb, now for a new reason. I remember the screen name, and I used to frequent chat, but i could use an avatar or a few familiar posts to jog my memory. Sigh.
I haven't visited this new board much. Today I mowed the lawn and wrote an email out of frustration to the financial aid office where my daughter will be going to college. I think next I will surf the net for graduation announcements.