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retiredminer

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  1. Hi Don't apologise for venting, every family has a winner or two. Some of the nasty things said when my wife died are unforgivable however you should be thankfull you have this venue to vent. We all get some of what you say as there are similarities for us as well. Now that you vented I hope you feel better, if m is old enough to write thanks on the card let that be the way to go and see if he even takes the hint. I feel for you as I'm going through family unpleasantness's as well. Good luck and I hope you feel better.
  2. Hi I really feel for you, it sad that you have to hid your valuables. It's really sad that they feel entitled and more important than the rest. There are several options for you but that's best left to you to decide. I'm more troubled by what I perceive to be almost be a death wish on your part. Please try to change that line of thinking, I'm sure that with some help you can work things out. there can be better days ahead if you really want it . I would think the first step is to stop being a door mat to those two( easier said than done). Seek help from friends and family and hopefully you'll be able to come up with a plan. In closing try as hard as it is to think of happier times and try to be positive, remember if you don't take care of yourself no one else can.
  3. Good luck I know you'll do well and not let the pressure get to you. If some one waited 2 weeks to see it maybe a good sign
  4. Her name is Debbie Deborah nana sweety. She was my rock my filter and warden. She had a knack of dealing the idiots of the world and touched so many people in a positive way. I can only hope to be more loving caring and understanding like she was. She set the bar high and I'm trying to measure up
  5. pancreatic cancer, was told not curable stage 4 she fought for 11 months, suffered more than I realised. What was really hard was she became confused. 5 days before she died she woke up and couldn't speak just yes or no thankfully that improved later. She spent the rest of her life in hospital, her respertory system shutting down. Even then she wouldn't speak of dying as she was going home no way she wanted to die in the hospital.
  6. I hate the emotional downers, crying,dealing with insurance companies and banks. I hate feeling so lost and alone, how empty the house feels.
  7. I may have posted twice (this is new to me) this is a good idea sept might be better
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