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Posts posted by Lisa
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I was the step in my marriage. We discussed issues but 99.9% of the time he had final say.m
But he knew where I stood. l
Onlyin one serious instance I laid d lown the law. But with my late husband. Not his kid. I miss him. Solo parenting is hard, but most of the time I am glad I can paren'lt my way now. Sounds cold but it is the truth.
I would at least discuss what his issues are.
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That really is incredibly sweet
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good to hear from you. sad to have to add someone but glad this site is here.
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I want you to know I hear you and can empathize.
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Just saw it two times. Back to back. Loved it.
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I am so sorry you are going through this. The time leading up to the 1st year was absolutely awful for me. Financial stress was maddening. I hope they reach out. From what I've seen of in-laws in the last 8 years, I will say it is a strange but common phenomenon to lose the in-laws. I'll never understand it. I wish you all the best.
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Michael, I wish I had words to comfort you. It should only be that easy. But it is not.
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8 years later I use Mrs. I won't change my name because it is important to his kids.
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"If it's not one thing, it's a Mother "
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Thinking of you
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please dont apologize and by all means keep posting, I know it feels like back sliding, but it isnt. grief changes. you may feel as if you are at day one but you arent. 3 years is a weird time. I thought I was doing well but I was out of control.
It takes much longer to be at peace with your past and present, please dont judge yourself. be kind to yourself.
hugs
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i got a 34 and they say it is complicated. i wonder what the hell my score would have been 7 years ago?
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Such agony. I'm sorry Michael.
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Thank you.
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I agree with everything Trying said.
I am so very sorry for your terrible pain. Try not to judge yourself or how you're doing. Just be. Moment to moment. Post whenever you want. ((Hugs))
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Good to check in. Glad to hear from you. (((Hugs)))
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Keep posting when you can. Rest and drink that water. Love you. (Hugs)
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I was impossible at 17. And I had both parents alive and together. Hang in there!!!
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I love this post!
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You're in my heart.
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Do you go to church?
in General Discussion
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I've always been sporadic about where and how often I worship. I'm the beginning I went to mass in the church of his burial regularly. It was comforting. I also attended a more liberal denomination I prefer. The problem is I almost always cry in church. And I like to sleep in. I have a relationship with God. I dont know the answers but I prefer to believe, in balance with reason. I've always only attended when moved to do so. Prayer and meditation have been very helpful to me. I'm glad I was brought up with a foundation to start and the ability to make my own choices.