Strongerthanb4 Posted May 15, 2015 Share Posted May 15, 2015 Just when I thought I could look forward to the summer. I am a mess because "decorating" my husband's grave totally fucking sucks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoVerySad Posted May 15, 2015 Share Posted May 15, 2015 I'm so sorry. Sending you tight hugs... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carey Posted May 15, 2015 Share Posted May 15, 2015 yes it does. Something about the stone being placed seemed to be the worst part. The finality of it. The period at the end of the sentence. HUGS to you today... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JacklessSally Posted May 15, 2015 Share Posted May 15, 2015 This was two weekends ago for me. We had been decorating my fiancee's grave since day one, but now that the stone is there makes it way harder to trick myself into thinking this isn't really happening. ((big hugs)) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Strongerthanb4 Posted May 15, 2015 Author Share Posted May 15, 2015 I keep thinking it is hard for me, but it must be torture for my MIL. Her oldest child is laid to rest next to her husband. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted May 16, 2015 Share Posted May 16, 2015 ((((((hugs))))))) I am so sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guaruj Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 Just when I thought I could look forward to the summer. I am a mess because "decorating" my husband's grave totally fucking sucks. I'm sorry that you find this so painful. I hope that one day you can visit your husband's grave without feeling so unhappy. It might make you feel better to find some way to handle this on your very own terms; some way to commemorate your love for him that also makes you feel stronger. If part of that might be decorating your husband's grave, there are people on these boards (including me) who would be happy to discuss that with you. |+| M a r k |+| Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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