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Hoping a bago matiralizes for you!!! I have faith!!

Carey....hold your head high!!! I fell for a few dickwads in the beginning f my search. Met plenty if good guys in the long run, just not a good match!! Believe your spidy senses! You have them if you just listen!!!

It's about the 2 hour mark before my nightmare began. For the last 2 weeks I have been on an emotional roller coaster. I know from experience that the lead up is worse than the actual day, however it's getting to me right now. Exhausted as I have broken into tears over stupid shit that normally does not get to me. I am full of mixed emotions right now, sobbing and laughing, angry and sad. I miss his silly ass!! Went to the local Firehall tonight and they had the music station on from the local cable....5 of "our" songs played!! For the most part, I am happy with life these days, but tonight.......

Big hugs, I hate when the grief monster pulls a sneak attack! I shed a tear for those who lost their loves before this historic day.

This is a good day indeed 8)

((((Hugs))))))) even when ending something is the best outcome, it still hurts.

Yay!!!

Hugs Nuggets, I have no words of advice, just another shout out to FUCK CANCER!!!!

I was all set to do this, and came to the big girl realization, that it is not wise for me to sped that kind of dough, when I may be going on strike that very weekend. Very sad to bow out, but I know you camp regularly with your kids, and I WILL join you sometime!! I love you will have fun dammit trips

Yes, this.... For the most part, I think I have made it.....but my official 4 year is right around the corner (July 1), so, now everything is amped!!

No words of advice here either... Just big big hugs, I am so sorry.

You are much braver than I am! My wonderful mother ran interference with my monster in law. She too wanted to spend an exorbitant amount on the funeral at my expense. I haven't spoken to her since the memorial.

No words of advise, just big hugs. Praying for a positive outcome.

Uummmmmm why just the kiddies???

Those things are evil genius MS!!

Cobbler is in the oven 8) Looking forward to tomorrow! Just an FYI I work until 12:45 tomorrow...for those who I have given my number I will answer you eventually ha ha! It just may be sporadic until the witching hour. A bad storm is rolling in for tomorrow evening... I am not far from the picnic, and I am offering up a bed for those who are traveling. I have 2 real beds, and couch etc.

I am childless, so take this with a grain of salt. Although I am lucky, and both of my parents are still alive, they did get divorced when I was eight. The ink had not dried on the divorce papers, and my mother remarried. My father on the other hand took years to do it, and I met MANY a girlfriend. There was only one that I was a bit upset when they split, however I was a kid, and got over it rather quickly. I think it's fine that you are going on this trip. I think your therapist is a bit of a prude. It's not like you met this guy at the bar last night and are going away together with your child. I for one think it's important to see how everyone gets along. Bottom line, is your kids want you to be happy, just as much as you want them to be. I believe we have become a society that coddles our kids too much. Kids are more resilient than we give them credit for.

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adp TooSoon + 1 lmsmdm + cucumber and tomato salad, strawberry rhubarb cobbler Michael 797 SoVerySad + 2 teens + deviled eggs and fruit salad quovadis + something vegan Wheelerswife6+ box of chocolates from our very own Willy Wonka 8) LisaPop Meandthreekids + bottled water and soda K-REBat + yummy bread and some vegan treat Biscuit Keeptrying + the Brady bunch-1 Imissdow + 3 + noodle salad of some variety and chips Missingsqusih + mac and cheese muffins singinmomof4+2 kids +pasta salad There is still room for more if anyone cares to join us.

We will miss you Donswife.

There will be room in the fridge MS.....Donna we will miss you two!!

Very wise words. I'm glad you shared

My heart is breaking for you. It's not silly at all.

Hope all is ok.

No I don't think that day will leave any of us really. Big hugs to you. That must have been so scary for a 4 year old.