Momtojandj

Ok, date from last night changed to Tuesday night . So I will let you all know how that goes. However , chatted with another online seemed nice , pics good. Then he sends me a recent one thru my phone.. Um Ok , the pictures online are easy 10 years old based on his recent ! Geez... I hate online !

So I have to amend my answer, I actually have a date Sunday night with a guy I started contact with online . He then has asked me out, we have texted on phone . No phone call.. But that's ok . Public place . Funny thing is not sure he's really my type, but one of his pictures made me laugh and I sent more of a comment about it . So we shall see.

Klim... I have on occasion contacted a guy , and it's never resulted in a date .

Ok here's another fun fact.. I have gotten maybe 3 or 4 in last week email me, and not really my type and on top of that they live maybe 1-2 hours away . Now if I really was interested , maybe I would try. Since not my type , I say distance , too far. Well don't you know, all four try to convince me they don't mind driving to meet me . What the heck ! I can't get guys in my town to want to meet me, but guys a state over are ready to meet ? I give !

Guy emails me and ask what's my favorite position .. Oo wait .. He did say I was gorgeous first lol. I asked him if that line really works and do girls really say .. Ok let's have sex ?  Ugh ..

Adding to my week.. So mentioned guy going crazy when I said I didn't want to meet.  So today , I reopened by okcupid profile, just so that my friend could have me look for a guy she saw. Anyway , I was on all of five minutes , enough time for someone I messaged with months ago to spot me. He starts sending message after message , that I disappeared on him , that I'm a aloof and a player . Then says I don't want to meet you anymore, then keeps sending messages. I blocked and deleted the whole profile again. Is it a full moon ???

Ok, so I was chatting with a guy online , went ok then we talked on the phone , twice. Well his voice and the way he spoke about certain things just turned me off. In my gut said something was off , or just not for me. So I told him nicely today I wasn't meeting him. That didn't go well . Wasn't very nice about it. What was I supposed to do ? Still meet him ?

I was hoping to go to this, no way can I afford it this year . I'll be watching for pictures !! Have a blast .

Googled a guy I had a date with other night, google says he's 55 not 50. Also can't find separate addresses for the ex wife and him . I did ask him today on phone if she lived close and he said yes. Hmm .. Not sure about this lol

Thank you captainswife, needed to read that . ❤️

I so need a break again from online, so many fake people on there . One guy got mad because I said I wasn't interested since his profile said he smokes, he responds I don't smoke! Um ok.. Another one emailed me, then says where exactly is the town I live ( which is listed ) I tell him and he says too far.. Um you emailed me, look up the town first before emailing me.  Starting to think the chances of finding someone online is as good as winning the lottery . So discouraged :-(

Maybe they did an image search on Google? did you use the same pictures from your Facebook page for your dating  profile?

I change my profile a lot. So not necessarily is it the same. But geez if guys have that much time to findme ? Lol

Momtokam, neither knew my full name and I didn't know theirs , so I never searched for them on Facebook. One had my cell number , we texted but he never asked me out. Th other we only talked on the site . I wouldn't friend them , odd !

Ok.. Help me figure this out .. this is the second time I have received a friend request on Facebook  from a guy I spoke to online, but never met in person . Both guys we had just chatted , and after awhile if they don't ask me out I stop responding . Odd ! Why friend request me ? You didn't ask me out when you had your shot...

Arneal.... I have tried paid accounts and free . Around here , I see a lot of the same people on all sites. Honestly I have better luck on free sites, and I don't know why . I will say I think the quality is much better on the paid sites. Plenty of fish has an option to upgrade and pay , not worth it.

What I would do, is get your feet wet.. Start with free , see what you think , you can delete if not for you . Good luck !

Ok, so what dates are wids hanging in Disney ? So going to look at flights ..

Welcome Chrissy, sorry you had to join our sucky club. Thank you for sharing your story. My husband was killed in a motorcycle accident in 2012. Always here if you need to talk xo Renee

So date I was supposed to have tonight, I finally texted at 7:30 for him to say he was still at work . ( he's an hour to home, then 30 minutes to meet me half way ) Told him we can meet another night, not thinking positive anymore about this one. Something seems off. Sigh .. I don't get it .. Go online to meet people, but it's all games . How old are we ?!?!

Ok, so I have a date Friday night. Messaged, texted and spoke on phone. I'm cautiously excited . I even asked him if he had teeth since I couldn't see them in his pictures.. Just needed no surprises . And asked if he was a serial killer . Boy am I jaded or what ?!

Ok I'm tired of this , tired of online dating .. The guys who just stop messaging , or the ones who just want to talk and talk and don't ask me out, tired of talking about myself and explaining I'm a widow , explaining the reasons I stopped working until kids are out of high school. We all know nothing matters if there's no chemistry .. So ask to meet , coffee .. Just tired of searching , trying , I reach out , I wait for them .. I need a break .. You think ?? 😜

Mrskro... I've learned I always answer , then ask a question . It's like leading a child to talk... Sorry guys on here 😉

Online now talking to mr negativity .. Trying to get him to say one positive thing.. So far I'm failing. I'm bored , telling him he's not for me soon .. 😂😂

Too soon , I used to see someone, but unfortunately with paying for my own insurance the cost to see him was out of reach even with a copay. I do go to a group with my boys , and it's my safe place to vent and talk .. But it's only every other week .

So someone I dated, still friends decided to sneak up on me the other day and grabbed me and laid a hot steamy kiss on me .. OMG .. I just can't stop thinking about it. I just want a huge make out session right now. 😜

Rob, purple unicorns .. Funny .

I feel overwhelmed , I barely can keep straight my life ,two kids , two dogs.. I am sure I would get two or more people mixed up.. As in which one had three kids ? Who was going away ?  Maybe I should try dating a few.. O wait I would have to have more than one sane person interested at a time .. 😜