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  1. Bear Tomás
    Margaret told me that she can no longer remember her mom's voice.
  2. Bear Tomás
    Nothing much you can do about an ex when kids are involved short of shooting her. :
  3. Bear Tomás
    The great thing about SILs is that you can completely eliminate them from your life if you so choose.
  4. Bear Tomás
    Fuck! I totally forgot. So sorry.
  5. Bear Tomás
    I believe in something bigger than me but am non dogmatic and somewhat anti organized religions. It sounds like the kind of religious movie that I may like, right?
  6. Bear Tomás
    I'm bipolar and sometimes try to self medicate with booze so it all kinda goes together.
  7. Bear Tomás
    Not a good idea. I speak from experience. Did not remarry but cohabited. I always felt like I was on vacation and not truly starting a new life. Not her fault. It just is what it is. Live and learn.
  8. Bear Tomás
    Cunnilingus I miss it and am very good a it. 8)
  9. Bear Tomás
    I was much more into denial. Laurie was probably in the ground three or four years before I truly accepted her death.
  10. Bear Tomás
    I don't do the Camp Widow thing but live like two hours from Tampa and love to drive. 8)
  11. Bear Tomás
    Good God, I'm moving to Canada. : Congrats, bro. 8)
  12. Bear Tomás
    lmao! It' a lifestyle.
  13. Bear Tomás
    FWB and Polyamory are more to my liking these days. Peace ~ Bear xxxoooxxx
  14. Bear Tomás
    (((bear hugs))) Marian.
  15. Bear Tomás
    Only you can answer that question. I LOVE my freedom so even cohabitation didn't really work for me. Laurie and I grew up together and were friends for a long time so the situation was much different for us, I think? Maybe I'm just too old?
  16. Bear Tomás
    A large group formed after I moved to Florida in 2009 (coincidence?). Fun group.
  17. Bear Tomás
    Bear at 24 (when I married Laurie) had different wants and needs than Bear at 60.
  18. Bear Tomás
    I want a girlfriend (NOT FWB) that lives close, but I cannot do the whole cohabitation thing. I tried to be someone I'm not, for love, which is truly a bad idea.
  19. Bear Tomás
    Some people, both men and women, are asses. It truly is that simple. Good luck - Mike Yep Myself included. I like to blame my bipolar but I'm just an ass.
  20. Bear Tomás
    I purged almost everything but photos.
  21. Bear Tomás
    Remember FWB is "friends" first. 8)
  22. Bear Tomás
    Laurie's uncle did the same which was a win-win for him. My dad and his dad both retired at 62 and lived to be 95 (dad) and 94 (Grandpa) but I doubt I'll be as lucky.
  23. Bear Tomás
    ^this^ Plus I will get a small pension when Laurie would have turned 65.
  24. Bear Tomás
    SS does not get cut at 16. When my boy graduated high school and no longer got ss, mine and my younger girl increased slightly. Same thing when she turned 16 and mine stopped. The older girl was already twenty when mom passed and never collected. I recently turned 60 and am considering collecting again rather then waiting until age 62.
  25. Bear Tomás
    Eleven years for me and it is still a roller coaster but with mostly good days now.
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