Bear Tomás
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Written inside the front cover of a book of poetry given to me by Laurie. Eileen found it while cleaning out our late dad's house for the buyers.
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Women are way too pragmatic. :
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Nice work.
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I am a DGI when it comes to divorced people
Bear Tomás replied to Trying's topic in General Discussion
I agree with calimom which kinda shocked me. lol (Disclaimer: I have never been divorced so my opinion means nothing. ) -
You can just "unfollow" her. I do that to friends who are bigoted assholes or live for drama.
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Been there. Self medicated for years. It took Laurie dying and me left to raise our kids alone to seek help.
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True Meds help me feel normal but I will sometimes go a little nuts. I am upfront about this with wimmin I date.
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I have suffered from depression most of my life and it is no joke. Some people are not meant to be with a person with mental illness or even mild depression but only you can answer that. Good luck, ma'am.
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long-term widowhood effect: professional disinterest
Bear Tomás replied to Mizpah's topic in Beyond Active Grieving
I have never been career driven but my fitness has suffered from apathy. -
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Just get out among the living. Fake it until you make it. I would walk over to the high school and watch the girls basketball. Anything to get out of the house. Being alone with my dark thoughts was not good for me.
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(((bear hugs)))
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Honesty is overrated. :
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Dated local gals/guys, friend of friends, other church members, etc. The internet is a blessing and a curse. Too many choices make people confused, imho.
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$2,400 just to find someone dates??? Wow!
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Why does Obama like dropping bombs from drones so much? (The Playboy Neighbor is still my idol.)
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Antidepressants..the good, the bad and the ugly????
Bear Tomás replied to klim's topic in General Discussion
I will be on antidepressants for life. The only downside for me is difficulty achieving an orgasm. -
Thinking of ending my relationship
Bear Tomás replied to CHM1988's topic in Relationships/Remarriage
A "relationship" should bring more joy than pain. I am so sorry for your loss, bro. -
"The Lonely Death of George Bell" in the NY Times
Bear Tomás replied to Guaruj's topic in General Discussion
This happens too often and is a big fear of mine. -
just lost the love of my life,
Bear Tomás replied to phil's topic in Newly Widowed (1 day to 6 months)
Me too until my kids had a kind of intervention. -
just lost the love of my life,
Bear Tomás replied to phil's topic in Newly Widowed (1 day to 6 months)
I am so sorry for your loss, bro. I never knew I could hurt so much without dying but it does get better but not for a very long time. -
Yep Our son just said that same thing to me yesterday. Ten years but it seems like yesterday to us.
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lol
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I get that daily on FB from both gals and dudes, SMO4. Yep .. any future love connection will happen in real life or not at all for Bear. Online just seems too weird from what I've read on the board.
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Yep