Bear Tomás
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lmao ;D Next time, you bring the pot cookies and we get naked at Playalinda.
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First Lemmy and now Bowie? Crap!
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My youngest was 18 when I seriously considered dating again. It would not have been possible for me to date six years earlier when we lost her mom. I have respect for those who have the time and energy for multi-tasking. All kids a different but 18 and 20 seem old enough to not need constant attention.
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wish I didn't have a need to join here
Bear Tomás replied to Mark's topic in Newly Widowed (1 day to 6 months)
(((bro hugs))) I am sorry that you are here too. -
lmao! Bear ain't the marrying kind and nuggets is just an old friend.
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Not really but I did finally meet the totally awesome nuggets!!! 8) Spent the afternoon talking politics and treason.
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"My Marriage Didn?t End When I Became a Widow" in the NY Times
Bear Tomás replied to Guaruj's topic in General Discussion
I would drink my morning coffee from Dunkin Donuts daily (weather permitting) while visiting Laurie until we moved a thousand miles south in 2009. -
(((((bear hugs)))))
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Can you admit it if First Marriage actually was not great
Bear Tomás replied to thejourney's topic in Social Encounters
Many idolize their past marriage. I loved Laurie - still do - and would gladly trade places with her, however, our marriage could have been much better. This is mostly because of me. I'm an asshole, more so before I was medicated. Just being truthful. -
I'm ok alone. I'd be ok as a couple. Life is an adventure. 8) 8) 8)
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27 Dec 2015 Clean & Press each rep 5 x 5 Squat 5 x 5 Done
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I just passed the ten year mark. At six months, I was still in a state of numb confusion.
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Good point. My youngest was 12 and in the fog of puberty. AND a girl.
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"Early recoupling" works for few, imho. :
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Even with Laurie, I had a man cave.
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I feel the same. What's the point when you're an old fart like me? However, I guess I could marry a younger woman and start another family.
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Seriously? You're worrying about 30 min? lmao! Too much togetherness overwhelms me so this would be my dream. 8)
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My older sister lives mostly by herself for now. They sold their house and bought another in a 55 plus community about a two hour drive from his job, after her retirement a couple of years ago. He retires from teaching in June and will join her full time. He rents a small apartment close to his work. They've been married since 1978.
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What I am reading now .. http://cl.ly/2T2u1B0S1R1o
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Have you read the Autobiography of U.S.Grant? Good stuff and his ideas still hold true.
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Good luck.
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You "get over" a cold, never the death of a loved one.
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same
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Nothing much you can do. Do not bad mouth the dad to his daughter. Kids that age are fickle so next year you might be shit to her. :
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All I need is a woman to make me smile and laugh.