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twin_mom Posted April 25, 2016 Share Posted April 25, 2016 I'm in the completely opposite situation Mizpah, so I thought I'd share and maybe it will give insight into what he's thinking and is unable to communicate. NG and I live together with my kids. He wants to get married. I don't. It's not that I'm not committed to him, I am- but while I may tell people it's just not in my financial best interest to marry him (and it's not for several reasons) it's really that I just can't fathom getting married again. The thought sends me into a panic attack. I now equate being married to being widowed and I am deathly afraid to go through that again. Even though I KNOW that if something happened to NG I would be devastated, for some reason I think as long as we don't get married, he won't die, and I won't have to be sad again. He's upset that I don't want to get married, it important to him. But being with each other is more important than our legal status to both of us- which I think is where we are different than your situation. He knows that I'm committed to him without the piece of paper (he's a divorcee, not a widower) and it seems that you do not have that confidence in your NG, that he is totally committed to you and your future? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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