When do the hits stop coming???

[still_lost]

Seven years since he's been gone, and the struggle is never-ending. I'm tired. I feel like I'm fighting an uphill battle. I have no one.

[donswife]

Wanted you to know I heard you and understand this feeling

well my version of it as we are all different but still in this together

key word is Fighting . You are fighting an uphill battle but you're still fighting

yup wish we all could catch a break and get a "time out "of this struggle

take care 

 

[tybec]

I read your original post. I didn't know how to respond without sounding contrived or say things you have heard over and over.

 

I am so sorry.  I don't know why some folks have so much of a burden.  7 yrs. is so long to carry so much.  It isn't fair or just.  You don't deserve it, either. 

 

I hope there is still a flicker of light.  I know you must be so, so tired.  Please keep checking in.  YOU are not alone. 

 

 

 

 

 

[Bear Tomás]

Eleven years for me and it is still a roller coaster but with mostly good days now.

[kjs1989]

I understand, still_lost.

 

I often find myself thinking of Rose Kennedy's quote.

 

"It has been said that 'time heals all wounds.' I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone."

 

That is how I think I will always feel.

[MauiMermaid]

Big hugs, still_lost. I understand the struggle and I certainly understand the "tired". I really like the quote kjs1989 added. So true.

 

Hang in there, we understand. xoxo

[canadiangirl]

Didn't see your original post but wanted to chime in to say that you are not alone.  We get it.  I don't know the answer to when the hits stop coming.  But I hope they do.