Wheelerswife Posted September 22, 2018 Share Posted September 22, 2018 ...I’ve been in this club. Sitting at the cemetery...remembering. Sigh Maureen 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tybec Posted September 23, 2018 Share Posted September 23, 2018 (edited) So hard to wrap your brain around, right? To comprehend all that has happened to you, with you in the last decade of your life. You have had a roller coaster of rides this last 9 years for sure. Thank you for sharing. All of it. 7 yrs. is coming for me. How have we done this? Keep on keeping on. Edited September 23, 2018 by tybec 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eddienhp Posted September 24, 2018 Share Posted September 24, 2018 Coming up on 7 years for me. You lived a lot in the 9 year; accomplished so much and lost so much. It's surreal. Sending you cyber hugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CJF Posted September 24, 2018 Share Posted September 24, 2018 9 years probably feels like forever and sometimes just like yesterday. That is how I feel now at almost 8. Hugs to you. Hang in there. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boysx3 Posted September 27, 2018 Share Posted September 27, 2018 I am coming up on 8 years and somedays I feel like it was yesterday and other days it feels like it was so long ago. Hugs to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sudnlysngl Posted September 27, 2018 Share Posted September 27, 2018 coming up on 12 years and it still feels like yesterday, we never get over it, just learn how to live with it. until we can be with them again.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wheelerswife Posted September 27, 2018 Author Share Posted September 27, 2018 Thanks, everyone. I wish that I hadn't had to renew my membership in this club. I'm working on living with the loss of both my guys. It will be 5 years in January for my second husband. My time at the cemetery on Saturday was necessary. I pulled up a chair and talked and cried and my car got blocked in by unthinking people in a funeral procession that drove into the cemetery. I took it as a message that I just needed to stay longer. Sunday, I got to spend some time with a wid friend. Monday came and the heaviness had dissipated. I know that happens...but it anniversaries seem to always feel so oppressive! 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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