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Today is my anniversary...well, one of them.


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3/24/11. Four years ago, I had the privilege of marrying this beautiful man.  I never expected that I would lose him so quickly, less than 3 years later.  This was one of the best days of my life...in a string of the best 1465 days I could ever have imagined.  The woman who performed our ceremony gave us each a red rose...the first gift to us as husband and wife.  We then exchanged those roses as our first gift to each other.  I still have them.   

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So beautiful. People keep telling me that cheesy saying, "Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened".  But that's what came to my mind at your photo ... you KNEW how fragile life was and you lived every minute with him fully in it, if that makes sense.  Probably made those 1465 days all that more precious.  Hugs to you today.......

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(((Maureen)))

 

I'm thinking of you today! Once I wrote the poem below, and perhaps it will resonate with you.



 

 

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'The Rhythm of Life'



 

Life is a succession

Of 'Hellos' and 'Goodbye'

Everything can change

In the blink of an eye

 

It's a great amalgam

Of joy and pain -

We must see what's important

So that it's not in vain

 

Life's nothing but small moments in time

Some filled with sorrow, others sublime

It offers us lessons in how to discern

What's of true value, for us to learn

 

And as we watch the ebb and flow

Of great loss and great gain

We begin to understand

Its ephemeral frame

 

And so we try to accept

The fleeting nature of time

And attempt to make sense

Of its painful rhyme

 

As we begin to comprehend

The fragile nature of Life

We come to understand

That it must be Wisely spent

 

Treasure each moment

With those you hold dear

It's the only way

To assuage our fear

 

Cherish each instant

And take the time

To make even the small

And the mundane feel sublime

 

And when we ask cosmic forces above

"What shall I Do to find meaning?"

The answer always is - LOVE!

 

Only Love softens the rhythm

Of life's rough ocean tides

It comforts and delights

And it ALWAYS ABIDES!

 

And so, when we're asked

For yet another release

Our Love flies at their side

As they Soar in Peace!

 

~~ À Tout Jamais

 

 

Maureen, you have had truly beautiful 'moments in time' with your Love, and you Did spend them wisely!



 

Hold on to those treasured memories as you look back today.

 

I wish you Peace!

 

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