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I'm so, so, sorry. Go with your gut feelings. If he wants to win you back he needs to earn it and be very clear. You deserve that and more. If not, his loss. I know it hurts like hell but stay strong.

I need to be ..... touched, kissed, caressed, held, stroked, kissed, fondled, nuzzled, kissed, licked, pressed up against, kissed, & desired, by a man who wants me as much as I want him.......... Sigh.......

Fireworks with my kids! Happy Canada Day!

This is something my lawyer (top estate lawyer in my city) told me. Please check with your own lawyer to feel comfortable with what you want to do. This is not advice, I'm just passing on what I was told. I am not a legal expert! We did not have wills, yes I know stupid. Made my life somewhat complicated after his death but all is good now. My lawyer told me a hand written holographic will is less contested than a will kit will or on line will because it is entirely in your own handwriting and does not even need a witness. Will kits are printed and the witnesses could be hard to verify without a lawyers presence. He told me to go home and write a holographic will immediately that would serve me until he could complete the proper one. We never got around to making wills because we never had/made time to go see a lawyer. If I knew then how easy it would be to do one without a lawyer, we would have done it. This is just my personal story...please check with your own lawyer for advice.

Rice doesn't do much Rob. My daughter dropped her in the toilet. This a week after she dropped it in the school driveway and it got run over and I had to.replace the glass. Tips I learned after the fact.... 1. Power it off as soon as possible because you will lose that ability 2. Do not try to charge it 2. Open any possible openings to dry it out My handy local repair guys who replaced the screen were able to save it yet again. 3rd strike and she'll be out!

Happy father's to all! Rob, I'm so sorry......

I've been running around all day, daughters soccer team car wash, younger ones had to go to a birthday party.....I drove all around a traffic filled city and I have a cold.....oh joy....feeling sorry for myself :-(

Well I wonder if they are with my younger daughter's 2 lost retainers....on #3 currently. She goes to sleep with it and in the morning it has disappeared.....twice! $250 a pop! Now I make her wear it during the day instead. When the archeologists find the glasses, send them my way!

Thanks deedee! Let me know if there is anything special you wanted to see in Toronto. I can plan something to your interests! You can pm me to let me know what area you will be in and we can plan from there. Anyone else?

I really understand how you are feeling. My husband was killed on the job and now many changes are in place that would have saved his life. Yes, I don't want another family to ever have to deal with what we dealt with but it still hurts to know it had to take his death for these changes to be made. As far as sleep, it comes and goes for me.....sigh.

Is anyone still interested? I didn't see any replies to confirm the date so I wasn't sure.

Not pathetic at all Jen.....I feel the same way.......or maybe I'm pathetic as well...... DH couldn't sing either! I often longed for someone to sign romantic songs to me...... Maybe one day...maybe not....

This was our favourite musical Jen. We closed our wedding reception with our last dance to All I ask of you......

I think the head hunter idea for other options is a perfect place to start. Something may be the perfect option but you never would have thought of it yourself. M is young enough to make the move soon. I so understand the house thing. We bought 21 years ago with grand plans for many changes that DH was doing a bit at a time on his own. I am left with a part finished basement, need for another bathroom, need for new windows, and need for an updated kitchen. I would get out sooner rather than later but we feed into one of the best highschools in the city. Families pay big bucks to move in the area for this school. My older daughter is graduating next year and has done amazing in this school. Even though my twins are only 10, I'm thinking biting the bullet, staying and renovating is the way to go so they can go to this school as well. But when they graduate, I am out of this house!! Only 7 years to go 😨. But as we all know, things can change.... Sorry for going off on a tangent but I offer you hugs and good thoughts. I know the right option is out there for you. You just don't know it yet.....but soon it will be as clear as day!

Extremely impressed with your strength! You and your son deserve so much more. Keep strong........so proud of how you handled this!

Big big hugs...... Standing right behind you in support. You can do this!

I am getting ready to go to my daughter's soccer game in pouring heavy rain... SWSN for sure!!!

Crossing my fingers for! I so hope you get this house!

Congratulations Rob! You've done an amazing job. You should be proud of your girls and yourself!

^^^^skin as smooth as silk^^^^^

Darn......I'm average.....and he is so close to me too.....😨

Should we plan on Aug 8-9 then? Anything in particular you all want to explore in Toronto? I can plan around your interests!

Oh no! Positive thoughts and big hugs for you!

DeeDee, of course you are welcome! Everyone is welcome. K-REBat nice to see peaked interest! Anyone else? It's been hard to get one going around here.

Trying, I wish I could give you some big hugs in person. You are incredibly strong and I am so happy for you. Yes it will be incredibly crazy but just keep thinking to the ultimate destination. Your new home!