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linda5 Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 I don't know ... I think I would try to get a real commitment from PB neighbor! Something about him wins me over! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 You have a history with PB neighbor so I think the awkwardness of your past and present colliding is inevitable. As much fun as he is, from what you've said, he's not relationship material. That's why he served a purpose for you when you didn't want a relationship. Settling into a real relationship with NG may be great overall but its never going to have the excitement of a secret, no strings attached, nonrelationship thing. It's all about what you want now. That's something only you know. For me, when NG and I start taking steps forward is when I start looking for things to argue about, pick apart or I just try to push him away. I'm guessing that if I was lucky enough to have a PB neighbor I would start thinking the grass is always greener. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
serpico Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 Hugs. Just hugs. Big squishy ones. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TooSoon Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 You're just having one of those "my worlds have just collided and I am not completely in control" moments. I can't answer the big questions for you but NG ( who is not so new anymore) seems to be pretty stellar. It is all about the long haul. ps - wide berth when it comes to the hormones. Give yourself lots of room when they insert themselves into things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizpah Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 I think there should be a delete post option. Emptied posts are just like when someone tells you there's something they can't tell you - itchy in the brain. Dislike! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sugarbell Posted November 3, 2015 Author Share Posted November 3, 2015 I deleted it after I told him this morning (He knew About going to Obama together the only thing he didn't know was the history)... First text marathon/fight we have had. Things are clear now...We are ok...Yes I do have a conscience and he knew I acted weird Saturday. (I referenced that he used to sleep with his payroll lady who didn't quit until 6 months ago..and I didn't know they were sleeping together up until he met me). I didn't lie...just left things out...and he has done the sane. First big fight...but I think we got thru it. I think. time will tell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizpah Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 I don't know what the original post said, but I can infer what you were saying. I'm always so happy when the first fight is done and resolved. It's hellish though, and the fight hangover sucks. Whatever the details are, wishing you the best! xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soloact Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 I don't know ... I think I would try to get a real commitment from PB neighbor! Something about him wins me over! I like PB neighbor too. If there was a commitment he would no longer have the allure of PB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TalksToAngels Posted November 3, 2015 Share Posted November 3, 2015 You're not yet engaged, but maybe you seek a side of yourself no one can tell you how to feel, about. Glad you worked things out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted November 4, 2015 Share Posted November 4, 2015 It's good that you were honest with him. And sometimes you have to get the first big argument out of the way so you can learn about each other. Hope it all smooths over. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bear Tomás Posted November 6, 2015 Share Posted November 6, 2015 Honesty is overrated. : Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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