sdarrah1130 Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 I only visited ywbb for a very short time prior to the shut down. There was a "library" of recommended books that I never got a look at. Well honestly, everything was too new for me to even think about a book. Can you post some recommendations? Thanks, Sandy - E's wife Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WifeLess Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 sdarrah1130, Welcome to Young Widow Forum. Sorry this site presently lacks the resource of books that YWBB offered. Perhaps one day this will be remedied. In the meantime, two books that I personally found the most helpful are: "A Grief Observed" by C. S. Lewis, which describes his journey through grief after losing his wife. And the first half of: "Man's Search for Meaning . . ." by Viktor E. Frankl, in which he makes the argument that "... suffering ceases to be suffering in some way in the moment that it finds a meaning". Over the 5+ years of my widowhood, I have found this to be true. These, along with H. Kushner's "When Bad Things Happen to Good People", which I have not read but many other widows and widowers have found helpful, are mentioned in the following article that you may wish to read about recovery from grief: http://www.gapsychology.org/displaycommon.cfm?an=1&subarticlenbr=305 Sorry for your loss. --- WifeLess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 I was not a big reader on the subject but many people recommend I Am Grieving As Fast As I Can Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Catnip Posted March 22, 2015 Share Posted March 22, 2015 Hi, I recommend Widow to Widow by Genevieve Davis Ginsburg. I've gone back to it time and time again, and it's been 8 years for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Baylee627 Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I recommend: "And Life Comes Back: A Wife's Story of Love, Loss, and Hope", by Tricia Lott Williford. It's about the author's first year or so after being widowed in her early 30's, the different phases she experienced, and finally, a renewed sense of hope. The author is Christian. If you're not religious, I would still say the book is relatable, and the author's not overly preachy. Just a good read. Baylee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swilson Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 A few I've read, many I hope to read; Widow to Widow: Thoughtful, Practical Ideas For Rebuilding Your Life ~ Genevieve Davis Ginsburg For Widows Only ~ Annie Estlund When Your Soul Aches ~ Lois Mowday Rabey Companion Through the Darkness ~ Stephanie Ericsson I Will Not Be Broken ~ Jerry White The Tender Scar: Life After the Death of a Spouse ~ Mabry, Richard Chicken Soup for The Greiving Soul ~ Jack Canfoeld, Mark Victor Hansen & Amy Newmark Seven Choices ~Finding Daylight After Loss Shatters Your World" by Elizabeth Harper Reflections of a Grieving Spouse: The Unexpected Journey from Loss to Renewed Hope ~ H. Norman Wright's Coping with Life After Your Mate Dies ~ Cushenbery, Donald C. Getting to the Other Side of Grief: Overcoming the Loss of a Spouse ~Zonnebelt-Smeenge, Susan J. The Light That Never Dies: A Story of Hope in the Shadows of Grief ~ William HendricksA Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows through Loss ~ Jerry Sittser Finding Your Way Through Grief, A Guide for the First Year ~ Marty Tousley Waking Up Alone, Grief & Healing ~ Julie K Cicero How to go on Living When Someone you Love Dies, ~ Therese A Rando Widows Wear Stilettos, A Practical & Emotional Guide for the young widow ~ Carole Brody Fleet I Wasn't Ready to say Goodbye ~ Brooke Noel & Pamela Blair Healing After Loss by Martha W Hickman Loving What Is, Four Questions that Can Change Your Life ~ Byron Katie From One Widow to Another: Converstations on the New you ~ Miriam Neff The Grief Club ~ Melody Beattie A Widow's Story ~ Joyce Carol Oates The Sisterhood of Widows ~ Mary Francis Traveling With George: An Out-of-This-World Experience ~ Betty Waldron Portenlanger Where Do I Go from Here? - Neff, Miriam From One Widow to Another - Neff, Miriam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captains wife Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I personally liked Saturday Night Widows, although would read this one a little further out. A Widows Walk-a Memoir of 9-11 - would also read this one later on. I personally liked I'm Grieving as Fast as I Can (in the beginning). The UnFaithful Widow (also a little further out). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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