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Wow! What a nightmare! Your brother-in-law seems like he's in his own little world, oblivious to social cues and how his actions affect others. That would have driven me crazy, too! I'm amazed you didn't strangle him. I think I remember reading about him causing you much distress in the past. I'm so glad he's finally gone and you have some peace in your home again.

Oooohhh! My heart aches for you and your brother! The deep love you have for your baby brother shines through. I hope he recovers and is able to get the help he needs. Sending warm thoughts and prayers for comfort and strength to you, your brother, and your whole family.

Oh my gosh! I can't imagine how terrifying this must be for you. How is your brother doing? It sounds like you have so much sadness going on right now. I'm sending lots of hugs and positive thoughts your way. Hang in there....we are thinking of you and hoping for the best for you.

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of you dear mother. Wishing you peace and comfort in the days, months, and years ahead.

Aaaawwwh! What a sweet story! You knew on your first date your sweet husband was a keeper! That really makes me smile! Such precious memories!!!

Oh my gosh! I'm in disbelief that you have such insensitive people in your life telling you how you should you should grieve, especially after only six weeks. Shame on them! Believe me, we completely understand here. Please keep posting, venting, crying, and grieving, and whatever you need to do to be heard and understood. I am so very sorry for you loss.

Wow, Icoxwell.....You HAVE been busy! I'm very excited for you and your new husband-to-be. You are truly blessed! In some ways, parts of my life mirrors yours. After years of loving and taking care of my late husband through his devastating illness, I remarried almost two years ago. Just before we married, I remember almost feeling like I had to give up my old self or life for my new, but was happily surprised that I carried it with me. Since my dear current husband was a widower, he and I also understand and respect that we both had great loves before we met and appreciate that about one another. It doesn't take away any deep feelings we have for each other. While our marriage is our priority and we share a wonderful life together, there is also mutual support when dealing with our past losses. Today was the ninth anniversary of my late husband's passing, and even after all this time has passed, I will always hold him very close to my heart. I found the heart can be resilient and bursting with all kinds of love. Although you will go from being Kenneth's wife to your special New Guy's wife, I'm sure you will be overjoyed and heart will continue to be full. Wishing you and your new husband many incredible adventures and a joyous life filled with love and blessings!

Welcome back! Hope everything is going well for you.

Sending you warm hugs, (((((D))))). Your eloquent posts always speak to my heart, especially today on the eve of the 9th year of the passing of my dear husband, Robert. The heart always remembers and will forever love. Thank you for your gorgeous and touching post. May peaceful memories of your beloved surround you in the "days, weeks, months, and years" ahead. Warmly, Cathy

Thank you for all who have provided us with the freedom we are blessed to enjoy! We are truly fortunate!

Oh Maureen...I am so sorry about the loss of both of your husbands. When you opened your heart to love again after your first loss, I was ecstatic for you. No one would have believed you would have to experience such a devastating loss a second time, especially so quickly. It's completely understandable that you're hurting so deeply. It really isn't fair. You and Barry had such a deep love and complimented each other perfectly. I'm very sorry. Sending warm, tight hugs!

Finding anything that interests you, whether it's a fun, active class or a volunteer opportunity, could steer you toward a group of like-minded people. Some that come to mind are Habitat for Humanity, helping volunteer at charitable runs/races, museum events, food banks, political campaigns, beautification, building and/or painting of parks or lakes, etc.....golf, pottery, kickboxing, cooking, or hiking groups or classes, to name a few. Just Google your city and scan the Friday week-end upcoming events in the newspaper to see the various opportunities your area offers. I find when doing something you find fun and meaningful, it takes the pressure off and allows the conversation flow more naturally than being in the bar or dating scene.

I know you and your kids will be thrilled to get away from these Stepford moms who seem to have nothing better to do than making life miserable for others. Too bad they are getting their kids involved with their nasty games and judgment. I admire that you're taking the high road and keeping positive. That leaves no ammunition for them. Best of luck in your new adventures!

Wow! After the hell you went through, the pride and joy you must be feeling for accomplishing so much has to be astronomical! I'm so thrilled you and your son are both in a happy and healthy place. I have a strong feeling that your late husband is so proud of you and cheering you and your son on!

Time to take good care of yourself, Mel! You deserve it!

Happy birthday, ThatGirl! Hope it's been a really good day for you! ((((AC)))))

Wow! That's a lot to handle in one week. The anniversary of our loved ones' passing is really the hardest for me, and having to do that and go to Houston for tests/scans must have been extremely difficult. So glad your scan back clear.....thank heavens for that. Sending big hugs for a much better week coming up. You deserve it!

Oh my gosh! I don't know how you could possibly have gone through this without crying. I am so sorry! Going into his room must have brought back so many painful memories, but I would have done the same thing. I'm certain his family understood. "I often feel like I don't know what is harder to believe - that he died or that he lived." I so get this! After my dear Robert died, I just wanted to world to stop, so they could remember him the way I did. (((((Big hugs))))) to you, MM, and may peace be with you this year.

Much like you, my life has continued with many changes in the past 8.5 years. Although I am content, there is still that missing feeling that all is right in the world. I also think of Robert, who was so full of life, always embracing it fully, just to leave this world as we know it. I miss his upbeat, loving and gentle nature. Hugs to you, Marian, on the nine years since you lost your beloved Mr. Prochter...'til you meet again.

Just toasted a glass or two of champagne to all! Wishing everyone a new year that's better than the last. Much love to you all!!!

The day after Merry Christmas for all! Sending warm wishes for blessings to shower over everyone in the year ahead.

Yes, it truly breaks my heart to think of the pain ahead for so many that were affected by all these recent tragedies. Like you, I also grieve for all others who are suffering. It really isn't right! Hugs to all!

I guess, sleep............starting now! It doesn't make much difference to me except in the spring when we lose one hour. I can always gain one, but to lose one is tough! Nite nite and sweet dreams, everyone!

This is AWESOME news! With your devastating losses, you deserve some good things to come your way. So very happy for you!

Yes, unfortunately life will never be the same, but hopefully things will look up soon and even become enjoyable. Sending big hugs and support!