Lisa

That was me Captain's Wife. Most of it still is .

Sending good thoughts and hugs your way. best of luck.

https://m.facebook.com/groups/1613415565540369?ref=bookmark_header he really does Rock! if we should ever have this unfortunate situation again, we set up a facebook group to notify the admins and get updates. Follow link at top to join.

Lots of people call themselves experts who are not. This one ticks me off

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Opening bills and mail. It took more than 5 years but I am paying my utilities electronically every month now. Much less stress than worrying about being turned off most of the time. Haven't really tackled the rest but that's big.

Im not judging you at all. People who actually see their loved one die can still have trouble accepting. It is a process. Im trying to give you other avenues for working through it. In your own time obviously . I apoligze for coming off insensitive and wish you well .

Horrifying

Im not really understanding this need to see pictures. It isnt my business but I really urge you to speak with your counselor.

Religion has always been fluid with me. Im Catholic too but prefer to worship at the more liberal United Church of Christ. Thats when I get out of bed and go. My faith is strong. Prayer really got me through the darkest days. I think religion and faith are not the same. If they were my employer too,Ii would probably most definitely worship elsewhere. but I suppose they are "all up in your business". For a long time going to church made me cry and I had a kind of post traumatic reaction. I was sick of crying in public. But my prayering was intense and regular. I understand people are very mad at God. It didn't really happen for me. I dont blame God. I think random bad stuff happens. Ibknow that isn't everyone's theology but it works for me,

That totally sucks

Congrats

Thars powerful. Sending some hugs

I dont see how to attach the pics in a private message here. Any attendees who want them, send me an email at callalisali@gmail.com

I always say a Bago is the best medicine you didn't know you needed. I look forward to seeing you again!

Let me be the 1st to say this was a LOVELY Day. Thank you to each and everyone of you for coming.

I may be strange. I've never thought of myself as rebuilding. Plenty of changes and adjustments. but I'm more of a sailor than a builder

Should be a beautiful day in the city. Can't wait

Im sorry you are struggling. This is a very long journey with out a finish line. It sounds like you feel very miserable. You might need a different antidepressant. Regardless of meds,I would recommend individual grief counseling. Sending hugs.

Im glad there is a Chapter. Im glad you aren't allowing yourself to be pressured into a leader ship role. Follow your gut.

Oh 14. I was a nightmare. I think you are handling this very well. Sending you sone extra strength and hugs.

Im sorry. How old is she?

I would be interested if affordable. I know other people who would be interested as well.

Yes! fwiw = for what its worth. I remember googling that one