piecesofapart Posted October 5, 2016 Share Posted October 5, 2016 Wondering what you all envision when you think of your spouse. The first year- I would see him in my mind and want to hug him so tightly. The second year- I moved onto hugging him more gently and resting my head on his chest-he was much taller so- it was right over his heart. This third year- when I think of him I want to put my hands out and hold his and pull him close and kiss him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tybec Posted October 5, 2016 Share Posted October 5, 2016 I am getting close to five yrs. I started dating 7 months ago and love NG. It has changed, then. I see DH's big body rocking as he has his hearty laugh, slapping his knee. He was the class clown in high school, voted Mr. mischievous. I see him grinning from ear to ear at our son's accomplishments. But he isn't "mine" anymore. I had to let go to love another. It saddens me but had to happen for me to reopen my heart. Never thought it could change..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sikeuritgadeun Posted October 5, 2016 Share Posted October 5, 2016 I see him with me, holding me, telling me it will be alright. Telling me he adores me and that I am beautiful, like he always did. Holding me closer saying he never wanted to leave me. And me telling him he is with me always, that he is forever in my heart. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizpah Posted October 5, 2016 Share Posted October 5, 2016 I see this - him smiling in the sun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captains wife Posted October 5, 2016 Share Posted October 5, 2016 This probably sounds a bit crazy but I sometimes envision him standing off in the distance, just looking at me with his huge, infectious smile. He used to pick me up at the train station as we were broke and shared a car and sometimes when I get off the same train (alone) I will myself to see him standing there, same smile. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donswife Posted October 6, 2016 Share Posted October 6, 2016 I see him leaning on our bridge that leads to the back yard holding on to an ice coffee and walking towards me when he see's me the way he did when he was here .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TooSoon Posted October 6, 2016 Share Posted October 6, 2016 I think of him laughing. He was eccentric and wacky but wildly and very often inappropriately funny. Even people who didn't get him had to laugh with him because it was infectious and irresistible. I will also always think of the way he looked when he talked about our daughter - it was embarrassing, really, how unafraid he was to let the world know he thought she was the greatest little creature that ever lived and at the same time enough to make me weak in the knees to watch those two kindred spirits together - they were two peas in a pod for sure. No sadness here - it was all wonderful until it wasn't. No regrets. Hugs everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bear Tomás Posted October 8, 2016 Share Posted October 8, 2016 Eleven years and Laurie still visits my dreams. I'd gladly shave five years off my life just to kiss and hug her one last time. Oh well, life goes on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swilson Posted October 10, 2016 Share Posted October 10, 2016 This time of year she would be getting ready to put the garden to rest for the upcoming Winter and looking forward to planning for the busy Holidays. Gardens and Holidays haven't been the same without her touch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quixote Posted October 16, 2016 Share Posted October 16, 2016 In her comfy chair, reading a mystery novel, sipping tea, dog at her feet (sometimes head on her lap). We sometimes wouldn't say anything for a while in the evening reading time. It was just good to be in each other's presence. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mac Posted October 18, 2016 Share Posted October 18, 2016 I surround her with gratitude. I see her smiling as she watches our son and our daughter living their lives. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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