MissingSquish Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Yeah. Yesterday was 3 years. Having some major flashbacks yesterday and today about the good things about him and our relationship. It's not that I'm ignoring the bad stuff that happened when he was alive at all. Just choosing to think about the good things. I've become more accepting of the entire widowhood situation. In a few short months, I will be a widow for longer than I knew him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Big hugs MissingSquish. I'm glad you are at a point where you can focus more on the good things. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wheelerswife Posted May 22, 2015 Share Posted May 22, 2015 Hugs, sweetie! It is so hard to miss them. The loss of short and intense relationships seem just as hard as longer ones....at least from what I can see. Love ya! Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissingSquish Posted May 22, 2015 Author Share Posted May 22, 2015 Thank you guys so much for the support. Hugs right back at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabzmom Posted May 23, 2015 Share Posted May 23, 2015 Big hugs. I'm glad you have good memories. <3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissingSquish Posted May 24, 2015 Author Share Posted May 24, 2015 Thanks Gabzmom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoVerySad Posted May 24, 2015 Share Posted May 24, 2015 Tight hugs to you, MS. I'm glad the flashbacks are to good times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissingSquish Posted May 24, 2015 Author Share Posted May 24, 2015 Thanks SVS . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Needytoo Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 Hugs to you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IfIonlycould Posted May 25, 2015 Share Posted May 25, 2015 MS-Just came on here to post something and saw yours. Sending Big Hugs and lots of support to you. I am glad you are remembering the good things. From reading your posts you do seem to be coming to terms with it all a little more everyday...it is the worst journey to navigate, I am sorry you ever had a reason to be here. (((HUGS)))) to my fellow goal get 'er doner. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissingSquish Posted May 25, 2015 Author Share Posted May 25, 2015 Hanks needytoo and ifonlyicould. You guys are the best support ever. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HvnBound Posted May 28, 2015 Share Posted May 28, 2015 MS, it seems like I did totally the opposite as you, my first thoughts in this widowhood were of only the happy moments and now I am realizing the bad moments in our marriage. I still miss him though and always will, how could I not? I loved him. I am so happy that you are having happy memories. Hugs to you MS! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissingSquish Posted May 28, 2015 Author Share Posted May 28, 2015 Thanks HvnBound. . Huge hugs back at you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jeff1038 Posted May 28, 2015 Share Posted May 28, 2015 Time just flies by now. Approaching 2 years for me. Glad to hear you doing OK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissingSquish Posted May 28, 2015 Author Share Posted May 28, 2015 Thanks Jeff. Huge hugs back at you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mac Posted May 29, 2015 Share Posted May 29, 2015 MissingSquish, I was busy celebrating my birthday on the 21st and missed your post. Sending good thoughts and hugs your way. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MissingSquish Posted May 29, 2015 Author Share Posted May 29, 2015 Thanks Mac! Happy belated birthday to you. Hugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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