TofinoMan

Thanks for the good explanation. I'm sure no one wants a bf or gf that rude anyways so be thankful.

I have some matching socks.....

Do keep in mind to if you get another bike, that with many bikes one pedal has standard threads, and one backwards threads....in theory its so the pedals won't come loose while pedaling. Not every bike has this....but most do. Hope the next bike goes better.

Hello Dazedandconfused. I'm a month more than you from losing my wife Jenny. No good answers to share with you sorry. Take care of yourself, and do your best to have some enjoyment. I think it is too easy to not take care of yourself properly and you need to. Just my thoughts and ideas.

I weigh myself at least weekly if not more as a requirement for work. I'm not losing weight any longer it seems. Glad to finally be able to maintain my weight and not keep dropping.

Ordered some new dining room furniture. Got to watch my Boo and whacky dog play in the snow on a mountain top.... they were so excited. Had dinner at my dads house with him and my sister in law who i adore.

So what is all this ghost talk? I admit that I am not an internet guy....but my brain keeps seeing people in a white sheet at a Halloween party. I might date again in 60 years....those old guys in the retirement home by then shouldn't need for me to be online since we are all locked in the same building.

Iloveyoualways, thanks very very much. So sorry for your loss!

Had a nice day with a mixture of things to do so no time to get bored for sure. While away working for a few hours I came home to a very excited child that had fancy nails done, surprise to me and her. My jeep is washed yay because a very nice person washed it for me today.

Mexican. Backup camera or use your mirrors to back up?

I have no wise words to share with you. And I am very sorry that you lost the man you loved so deeply, causing you to join the worst forum there is....but these are great people they will listen and help...I know because they helped me. Blessings

Thank you.

I have so many questions that I wish I had asked Jenny. So many things I wonder about. Its too late now to ask her. Wish I knew what she wants done with her stuff? Biggest question, and I often wanted to ask, but honestly I was scared of what the answer might be...But why she chose me....i always felt she was out of my league.

Some people are just nuts....if she was a chocolate bar she would be a nut bar for sure. Ignore the crazy bitch. Remember for every crazy, insecure, lunatic like her....there are a hundred nice people out there. There is no reason men and women should not talk or even be close friends. Its just a few whackos that think it cannot be that way. Sorry she verbally abused you. ...but just continue on being a good person yourself. Blessings.

1. Today was better than yesterday, which was rather rough. 2. My daughter practiced and practiced, got it great this morning, tied her own shoelaces with no help from the old guy. 3. My Dad called tonight, and we had a great talk...he told me that he was proud to call me his son.

Venture. But come home occasionally to see family. Ice cream or potato chips as a snack?

I realize that this is largely a ladies thread. But yes guys miss the intimacy and sex to. My wife Jenny was actually more aggressive than me. I'm not complaining, actually the opposite. But I never had to worry about getting enough because she made sure of it. I would be trying to get up early and she would literally tackle me back onto the bed and say NO WAY are you leaving here till you have screwed me good. Or she would just join me in the shower and do a lot more than wash my back. I'm the guy who went from twice a day was a really slow day, to zero, and maybe never again. I dream of her tackling me naked onto the bed and going crazy on top of me. I felt that maybe it was just a guy thing to feel like that....so thank you for making me aware its a 2 way street ladies.

Maureen, I am so sorry for your loss dear. Getting to know you a little bit I am sure you made those last 3 years and 9 months of Johns life incredibly special for him. Just sad you are hurting xo

Thanks Patty. Very kind and caring.

Lost 35....I would never make it as an interior designer. My house is a random mix of natural earthy tones and bright colors. Just painted a wall in my bedroom blue last week....just the 1 wall while repairing a few holes but didn't want to just paint ot white again. Buy a couch more for looks or for comfort?

Yes you are correct I will admit it. Not all....just the majority. I prefer slower and quality I guess. But I also will slow smoke my ribs instead of buying frozen at Walmart and microwaving them. Am I too patient?

Welcome to the place it sucks to be and you should never have to join. Filled though with some really great people. They have helped me. And sure they will do the same for you. Blessings

Hi Ruth. No I can't personally identify with it, but I am ve4y sorry for your loss. My wife was running with her run club she was with for years. She slipped running a country trail and landed on her head. So while she died of head trauma, it was an accident and not violence.

I never wore a ring. My job made it awkward andnit felt uncomfortable because i have never worn any sort of jewelry ever. But i carried my ring in my pants pocket every day, and still do. If you just want it with you try your pocket for a few days and see if that is the right place for you or not.

In the city i always locked the doors and windows. Here i don't ever lock the patio doors just the back door. We leave windows open etc. I feel a thousand times safer here with doors unlocked than i did with them locked in the city. My dog is not vicious but he would bark his deep bark to let me kno2 a stranger in present to if they came in.