hachi Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 It has taken me almost 3 years to find this out. In a little less than one month I will set out on an adventure I have dreamed about since I was a young woman. Over the years, that dream took a second place to the reality of my life. In all that time I never begrudged setting those things aside for my husband, kids, family, friends... anyone that needed my time or attention. A couple of years ago I started thinking about my dreams of seeing the world. I wasn't sure I would be able to get the time off, or be able to pay for it. But I promised myself I would do it. So here it is, less than a month away and I am taking a 2 week trip. It is what I hope will be the start of a regular event for me. To see someplace new in the world. And to find a way to make this a regular part of what I have left of my life. In a way it feels like I am getting re-acquainted with my "20-something interrupted" self. The one who wasn't that sure of herself, but had so many dreams and ideas. I like her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rifatheroffour Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 Such a positive attitude...I love to hear things like this. I helps to keep me hopeful that I will find myself eventually as well. With kids still at home it is a challenge...5 more years till the youngest finishes high school. Till then I will live vicariously through friends like you when I feel like I am still tied up from doing what I really want to do...now if only I can figure out exactly what that is...LOL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wheelerswife Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 Ah! hachi! Good for you, girl! Go explore the world a bit. I hope you have a blast. RIFF...I hope you get the chance to do the same! I love the spirit of exploration! Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 Go for it! I say all bets are off now-- jump in with both feet. What have you got to lose? (((hugs))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 Go Hachi!! Enjoy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeanGenie Posted April 15, 2015 Share Posted April 15, 2015 Hachi, I am so excited and happy for you! Good for you for pursuing your dreams and what you want to be doing. As we know, life is way too short! I'm not quite sure what the next chapter of my life will be. When I was younger, my dream was to get married and raise a family. And now...I don't even have a bucket list! Maybe someday I'll figure it out. In the meantime, I am so excited for you...both for the adventure and your guts and persistence to make it happen!! Can't wait to hear all about it!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr C Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 Hachi, It is wonderful that you have rediscovered yourself and are set to begin grand adventures. I love stories like that. 8) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DansSoulmate Posted April 16, 2015 Share Posted April 16, 2015 This is really wonderful! I am so envious and look forward to hearing about your travels! I have a list but at this point I find I simply don't have the confidence to make the plans, particularly faced with the prospect of travelling alone. And I love that you are still you, it gives me hope I'm still in there somewhere Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracelet Posted April 17, 2015 Share Posted April 17, 2015 What an adventure! Good for you. Wishing you safe travels. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hachi Posted April 17, 2015 Author Share Posted April 17, 2015 Thanks, everyone, I am inspired by the adventures of Gracelet, Nuggets, and Mac among others. I hope this is not just a one time deal for me, but truly the beginning of my life the way I want it to be.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursula Posted April 23, 2015 Share Posted April 23, 2015 Hachi, go girl!!! That is a great post of positiveness! Haha, I can see that in the future 2 weeks will not suffice to fit in all of your 20-something personal wants for freedom....have great adventures , come back safely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hachi Posted April 30, 2015 Author Share Posted April 30, 2015 What a roller coaster. 2 weeks from today I will begin my trip. I am excited, but I didn't realize how sad it would also make me to do this without him. He should be with me. I am really struggling to get through this, but it is weighing very heavy this morning. Glad I will see some of my posse on Sunday to talk to me down from the ledge. I got this.... right? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoVerySad Posted April 30, 2015 Share Posted April 30, 2015 Hachi, I am in awe of your courage. I do believe you have this. It seems understandable that feelings of wishing your husband was going with you would arise. I hope you find a way to carry his love with you to the new experiences that await you. I'm excited for you and will be interested in hearing about your trip when you return. You can do it! Hugs to you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hachi Posted May 14, 2015 Author Share Posted May 14, 2015 So tomorrow afternoon I set off on my big adventure. I am resisting the incredible urge to take his passport. I know it is ridiculous but it is nagging me. The last week was up and down. Still don't know if I have packed enough or too much. I know how to pack for a 2 week business trip. I can pack for a one week canoe trip, a trip to camp, a weekend at the beach. I can pack for a 5 day hike in the woods. This was altogether foreign to me and I don't really have a clue. Oh well. That's what shops are for, I suppose. As long as I have my ID and money, I guess the world is my oyster! If you don't hear from me, don't worry. Only taking my phone and no idea what internet access I will have. Will miss my regular fix of checking in with you all X's and O's til I get back. Grace and Nuggets, I hope I can live up to the "adventure bar" that you have set! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest TooSoon Posted May 14, 2015 Share Posted May 14, 2015 SO excited for you! All you need is that ID and a mind open to adventure! I salute you and wish you the happiest of trails! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wheelerswife Posted May 14, 2015 Share Posted May 14, 2015 Hachi...have a blast. I expect a full report when I see you again! Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeanGenie Posted May 14, 2015 Share Posted May 14, 2015 Have a wonderful time! And yes, just have your ID and $$ and you can get whatever you forget or find you need. I am so excited for you and can't wait to hear all about it! Safe travels!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
donswife Posted May 14, 2015 Share Posted May 14, 2015 have a wonderful adventure and can't wait to hear how it goes and see pictures yes all you need is money and id and a sense of adventure which you have gives me a little hope that one day I can plan an adventure also take care Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carey Posted May 14, 2015 Share Posted May 14, 2015 Color me green Have an outstanding once in a lifetime kind of adventure. Looking forward to the details and pics! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rifatheroffour Posted May 14, 2015 Share Posted May 14, 2015 Woo Hoo!!! Whatever you forget you either don't need or can buy a new one! That's how I travel...not going to waste energy over small things. Have a great time...and I'd take the passport if it were me... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hachi Posted June 29, 2015 Author Share Posted June 29, 2015 Well, as promised I finally got some of the hundreds of pictures into an album. It still needs work, but if I wait to finish all the captions, you will never get to see any pics at all! So, for better or worse, here it is. http://s1379.photobucket.com/user/mlaurence55/library/Cruise%202015 If it asks for a password, try mariel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Awesome pix, it looks like it was an incredible trip! I'm so glad you went-- you're an inspiration. Thank you for sharing with us. (((Hugs))) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted June 29, 2015 Share Posted June 29, 2015 Great pictures, thanks for sharing! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ursula Posted July 8, 2015 Share Posted July 8, 2015 Hachi, how did you do all of this in two weeks time???? And eat all the wonderful food you pictured??? I am also intrigued by the sea- organ, sounds great. I am glad you had a great trip. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
linda5 Posted August 7, 2015 Share Posted August 7, 2015 Does the password expire? I just tried to log in and see your pics and it said the password was incorrect. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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