Wheelerswife Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 She couldn't have been over 30. I sat next to her at the bar in the hotel here in (flooded) Houston, having gotten back rather late from my cancer tests. I needed something to eat, since I'd been fasting for hours. Some people - that I came to realize were her parents - walked in and hugged her and she started crying. Its pretty typical in this environment of cancer treatment for people to ask each other about their cancer and treatment. So...I asked her if she got bad news today. She told me that after fighting cancer for 15 months, her husband had died earlier today. I reached out and hugged her and told her that I understood...that I was widowed, too. I didn't have much time, but I offered her a bit of advice...to find other young widows for support. I had my laptop at the bar and I opened it up to this page to show her I was real. Her mother thanked me for consoling her daughter (or trying to). Maybe she will join us here. Cancer just plain sucks. Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calimom Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 She was fortunate you were there today, Maureen. Strange how the universe works sometimes. Here's a virtual hug to you in hopes of good news on the health front. xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gabzmom Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Hugs to you, Maureen. And hugs to that young woman! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 I'm welled up with tears. You are a blessings to so many. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patriciad Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Isn't it funny(not coincidental) when we are just where we are supposed to be? I hate cancer. I read all the plaques of 'what cancer can't do" but it is just so devastating to so many. Sucks Pat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carey Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Maureen ... yes you ARE a blessing... to me, to many I'm sure. I think you were meant to be in that place at that moment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoVerySad Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Maureen, I'm so glad you were there to offer comfort to her. A hug from someone who understands is a powerful thing. I hope all your tests went well, too. Hugs to you... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amor Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Thank for giving a hug and a way to find support. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wheelerswife Posted May 27, 2015 Author Share Posted May 27, 2015 My scans all look good. 15 months with no evidence of disease. I return for more fun in 4 months, rather than 3. Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Max2507 Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 I remember early on how comforting it was to know someone else knew and understood, that I wasn't alone. It makes a difference. So glad to hear such wonderful news about your tests. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guaruj Posted May 27, 2015 Share Posted May 27, 2015 Maureen - That was kind of you to talk to her when she was so distressed. You were in exactly the right place at the right time. ...and also, congratulations on your scans! That is great news. |+| M a r k |+| Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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