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Ok Let's wait for couple of days for others to respond but you can decide about time and place and I am in. What part of the day works for you. I am in Yonge and Finch area for whole day.

So sorry for your loss. I have the same feeling but moving forward slowly one day at a time. Small talks everyday is working for me and I can see if they immediately need something.

Hi fuchsiasky, Sorry to hear your situation but as a parent we are the ones who have to bend backwards if reqd. I had a similar situation with my 19 year old. Want to eat only certain things. No breakfast no milk no egg just chicken and pasta as that is needed to build muscles. Want to do things at his timeframe even if that will cost me money or inconvenience but I am giving in except few times when I got mad and gave him some piece of my mind. Just go with the flow probably after some time her frustrations will be less and also she will grow and understand your pain. Good luck and hugs. MR

We can either keep in little north like Yonge Finch (as easily accesible by TTC and parking is also cheap) or depending on where most members are. I am open to whole city. SunshineFL : No Flipflops as time for snow boots

I didn't go again as it hasn't been 3 months and also I am waiting for her to start appearing in my dream as they say that is normally a signal they are ready to communicate. It is tricky area where you might find someone good or a thug.

Hi, Let me know when your schedule opens and hopefully few more can join for a coffee. MR

Hi Kismet, We all are looking for same answers but in back of our brain we know we might not find the answers. Why me is a big question and cannot be answered. If you want to go to Medium wait till 3 months. I went around 1 month and according to medium she was coming weak. Most of them think it takes around 3 months for spirit to be strong to communicate with you. Hugs MR

Hi Kismet, Sorry to see you here but somethings in life cannot be explained and are better left to god. Take care of your baby and yourself. MR

Toronto Area anybody wants to meet

We all have those moments. As time passes fear reduces but it will never go away till kids grow and can handle their lives.

Hi Jen, Sorry for your loss. Not sure if it will help we all go thru the same. I am along here in Toronto with my 2 kids when my wife passed away and had to arrange everything from Funeral to rituals as we are Hindu and have lots of rituals. On top of that one kid has to go to uni 3 days after funeral and other has to start in high school but one step at a time helped and was able to go thru all this along with going back to work as was away for more than a month and it was chaos at work too. Once got some time to breath I realized what will be the life ahead and felt broken but kept moving one day at a time. So please take your time to grief even if it means crying whole day and don't rush to finish stuff. Also noticed replying to people in this forum might not help them much but does help me to take out my emotions so want to thank everyone here. Lots of hugs. MR

Congrats and Cheers.

Hi, Anybody interested in meeting in Toronto Area before it gets too cold. Tx MR

Sorry to see you here Pam. I agree with Justin my wife had medical injury on a Tuesday and a week later tuesday her condition worsen and 2 weeks later Tuesday she was no more. Every Tuesday I think of not crying but one thing leads to another and then I am crying. More I try to control more I cry. First few weeks I was like so many days have passed now I am like so many weeks have passed. So please hang on and things will eventually get little better, we will never forget them but will learn to live without them one day at a time. Also keep posting as it really helps.

I am not 6 months but 2.5 months but still feels it is dream and someone will wake me up. Keep moving forward and hope God will help us.

Hi Kaycee, It is very normal and will keep happening whenever you think of future. I am so terrified even with present that what if something happens to me, who will take care of me and keep crying thinking this but with passage of time the fear is getting lesser. So please take one day at a time as this is working for me. Spend time with kids. Tx MR

Hi Kim, Sorry to see you on this site. Hugs... We all are same spot and grieving in similar manner more or less. I lost my wife in Aug she was 43 and I am 44 and been having some bad days and some worse days but so far not even one day when my eyes were not tired or in pain due to crying but able to control my emotions in front of other people and specially my kids. Take one day or a moment at a time and the time will move little faster. Hoping you are feeling better. Tx MR

Sending luv and hugs.. Mine will be first in 3.5 weeks. Started crying thinking about it.

Hi Kaycee, Also please don't rush to finish stuff and do what is really need to be done. MR

Hi Kaycee, I am very sorry for your loss and definitely correlate as lost my wife on Aug 30 and still going thru mixed emotions all the time. I agree with everyone please take one moment at a time. Try to cry when alone so that kids don't see you crying much else they might not discuss the issues with you as they think they will stress you more. This forum definitely helps in vending out some emotions as we type and pour our heart out. I still feel some one will wake me up from dream and we will be back together but slowly slowly we all will accept the fact and starting moving forward one step a time. Hugs and best wishes MR

So true feel same everyday Tx MR

Sorry to hear about your wife Frank. My deepest condolences. I went thru the same thing while she was in ICU and on ventilator from day one. We went to doctor to get pain relief needle in the neck and were not told of any side effects or danger associated with it. She had cardiac arrest right after needle and EMS was able to revive her only after 20 min due to which she has severe brain injury and never came out of it and after 3 weeks i have to allow doc to remove support as she was brain dead according to them. Please hold on to her memories and cry as much as you want if it makes you feel better. I hope you will be feeling better soon. MR

Hi Blue Green, Hugs from all of us if that helps. It has been almost 10 weeks since I lost her. Everyday i still feel it is a dream and someone will wake me up. Don't know what item will make me smile and next time same item makes me cry. MR

I am having the same problem but will try Magnesium if that helps. I am only able to sleep 4-5 hours but do get sound sleep during that time but after that just tossing around in the bed.

Hi, Sorry to hear see you in this club. We all can understand you pain as we are going thru same thing. Keep moving forward one day at a time and hopefully things will get better. Tx MR