gracelet Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 HOW DOES IT WORK?!?! I find myself only a few days away from probably more than likely hopefully but terrifyingly away from having sex. Elle is probably watching me now thinking "what the holy fuck, Grace?" What a curve ball. I've done it before but I was drunk. Now there's a man who wants me, I want him, and the end result will be hilariously tragic or hilariously wonderful. Not in between. Gaaaaah. This time next week, I could be PREGNANT. (I won't, don't worry. But I could) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AC Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 I would think the most important thing at this point would be to relax. Really. From what I have followed, you and this young widower care a great deal for one another. You seem to have developed good lines of communication where there is mutual trust, honesty, respect, and genuine concern for the happiness and well being of each other. That, to me, sets a pretty good stage. Keep those same lines of communication open. Be willing to experiment but don't be afraid to put on the breaks if something makes you uncomfortable. No need to run screaming out of the room, but perhaps suggest a different way of doing things. From what you have said, this guy will listen to and respect you and you will do the same for him. From my own personal experience, that can lead to some pretty fun stuff. Have FUN and be true to you. ETA - I think you know this, but SAFE SEX IS A MUST HERE. No glove, no love. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddalena Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 for me the thing to do was to keep the lights out or at least, very dim Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizpah Posted March 23, 2015 Share Posted March 23, 2015 This time next week, I could be PREGNANT. (I won't, don't worry. But I could) Oh, Gracelet! Be careful. I think you may remember my story from YWBB - fun single Manhattan girl turns rural mother. Why you ask? Widower boy plus lust. Have fun!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gretchen437 Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Sorry I didn't read this sooner. If the deed has not yet occurred I would recommend some liquid courage. It often helps me do things I would otherwise be too nervous or scared to do. Just remember not to get too drunk, because those who get hammered aren't going to get nailed (bad joke I know). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mo12 Posted March 25, 2015 Share Posted March 25, 2015 Oh gracelet, I love your stories- lord knows I won't have any of mine own anytime soon, which is perfectly fine by me, so keep em coming! (No pun intended.) Safety first- and enjoy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracelet Posted March 26, 2015 Author Share Posted March 26, 2015 Deed has not occurred and may now not be occurring. How is it that when I start to get my head round something, the goalposts fucking move?? Got a fucking bikini wax and everything. Thank God I didn't go whole hog. I can't even blog about it in detail now because as soon as you google Boy Widower, up pops my blog!!!! Terrified he will find it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddalena Posted March 26, 2015 Share Posted March 26, 2015 hm, do you call him boy widower? change it to something else, like dandy widower! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest nonesuch Posted March 26, 2015 Share Posted March 26, 2015 So [ nonesuch swills coffee and scratches her head ] It's a typo, right? "Box sex" should read "boy sex"? Because I'm doing research here- BDSM, etc, And if there's another kind I haven't tried, well, I'm pulling for Gracelet's event to occur, because enquiring minds need to know what this is. ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracelet Posted March 27, 2015 Author Share Posted March 27, 2015 So [ nonesuch swills coffee and scratches her head ] It's a typo, right? "Box sex" should read "boy sex"? Because I'm doing research here- BDSM, etc, And if there's another kind I haven't tried, well, I'm pulling for Gracelet's event to occur, because enquiring minds need to know what this is. ;-) Ha, indeed a typo! I hadn't even noticed. BW and I had a heart to heart last night. He's feeling a bit down and guilty about lots of stuff. Makes sense he feels guilty about sexting a lesbian widow for the past three months... Well, he also got a picture of my boobs in a nice lacy bra last night ;-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tableforone Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 I thought it was box sex too! Possibly a british, lesbian slang for hetero sex. Opened today to see how you'd liked it! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
serpico Posted March 27, 2015 Share Posted March 27, 2015 I dunno, to me 'Boy Sex' seems even creepier. How about 'Man Sex'? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Portside Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 When I first saw the heading of this post, I thought it said "Box sex". So I was thinking, well, if sex with a box turns your crank, okay by me, but honestly, I just can't see how that would work. Apparently, my imagination is lacking. Mike Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lmsmdm Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Ok, if racy pics are being sent, NEVER have your face in em...... Just sayin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lmsmdm Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Beyond pre cellphone days, best friend let boyfriend take pics. The rapid fire that occurred in 1985 was insane, took 1 week for the school of 1500 to see. Today????? 3 seconds for 100's Again just sayin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calimom Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I dunno, to me 'Boy Sex' seems even creepier. How about 'Man Sex'? This gives us a new window on your world, Serpico. Tell us more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddalena Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 i am glad we got to the bottom of the "box sex" mystery. I figured I was too old to know what it was.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mangomom Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I think you should look it up on Urban Dictionary. I think Gracelet might be in for a wild ride if she actually meant Box... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest AC Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I think you should look it up on Urban Dictionary. I think Gracelet might be in for a wild ride if she actually meant Box... My eyes, my eyes!!! LOL. "Box sex"... To each their own, I guess. I like to learn and am glad I read that, I guess. Others may not feel the same. ETA - for old timers, think "somewhat crude content" thread... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mangomom Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I think you should look it up on Urban Dictionary. I think Gracelet might be in for a wild ride if she actually meant Box... DISCLAIMER: Not for the faint of heart! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Euf Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 I?m just glad that we got the whole ?box sex? thing explained. I think of myself as being rather liberal and I?m open to new things, but ?box sex? was new to me. ??? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracelet Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 I don't even want to know what box sex is, thank you very much. I'm a total innocent. Well, bikini wax didn't totally go to waste... I was at a super posh LGBT charity do with work last night. Seduced one of our clients... It won't come back to bite me though as she isn't a buyer or decision maker, rather she just works at a client company. That's what I call good networking and client relationship management. I decided to screw subtlety and went straight for the "if I asked you to come home with me, what would you say?". No sleep til 4am ;-) BW doesn't know what he's missing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddalena Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 maybe this is none of my business, but why would a lesbian be messing with a "boy widow" anyway? You clearly prefer women. I don't get it. tell me MYOB if you want. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
serpico Posted March 28, 2015 Share Posted March 28, 2015 Not too fond of NAMBLA, that's all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracelet Posted March 28, 2015 Author Share Posted March 28, 2015 maybe this is none of my business, but why would a lesbian be messing with a "boy widow" anyway? You clearly prefer women. I don't get it. tell me MYOB if you want. I don't get it either. Yes clearly I prefer women. In fact, I more than prefer. I don't like men ever! And never go looking. There's just something about this one specific man. A connection, a tension, an understanding. Goodness knows what he's done to me. This is why it's such a mindfuck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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