Guest nonesuch Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 My husband died seven years ago. Four years ago, I met my current SO. Yesterday, he was diagnosed with prostate cancer. The prognosis does not sound good. It is likely the cancer has already spread. I'm angry that his old doctor didn't have this biopsied a year ago, and frightened that I don't have what it takes to stay strong. He's only 65. This isn't fair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mrskro Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 OH nonesuch. I am so sorry, send you and your SO hugs, thoughts and prayers. I can't imagine. F*ck Cancer! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Nonesuch I am so very sorry, hugs and prayers for both of you. Fucking cancer doesn't care who it destroys. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wheelerswife Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Deep breaths. I'm really sorry, nonesuch. I really get it. Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mizpah Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 I'm so sorry. Those words don't even begin to communicate the feelings I have for you upon reading that. Thinking of you so much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maddalena Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 there are no words. I hope it isn't as bad as you think. But nope, it's not fair at all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MR Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Hi nonesuch, So sorry to hear it. Don't have to express my feeling , You and he will be in my prayers. Hugs Manoj Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forgottenwife Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 I wish I had the right words Nonesuch. Thinking of you both while you navigate his illness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hachi Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Hi Nonesuch, I too feel that "I'm sorry" is so inadequate. I can relate to your fear. Where did we find the strength the first time? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momtokam Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Not fair in any way, shape, or form. It just simple sucks! Biggest hugs...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenHeart2 Posted April 27, 2017 Share Posted April 27, 2017 Hugs and prayer to you and your SO Nonesuch. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julester3 Posted April 28, 2017 Share Posted April 28, 2017 Oh my gosh...this is terrible! I cannot imagine what you are going through. Hugs and prayers... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
twistedmensa Posted April 28, 2017 Share Posted April 28, 2017 I am so very sorry. Fuck cancer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
swilson Posted April 28, 2017 Share Posted April 28, 2017 I'm sorry you're both facing this. Someone had the tag line "I'd like to punch cancer in the face" and I agree Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lmsmdm Posted April 28, 2017 Share Posted April 28, 2017 Like everyone else, I know the words seem empty. However, I truly am so sorry. Please come here to vent and keep us posted. Praying for you both. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jess Posted April 29, 2017 Share Posted April 29, 2017 So heartbroken for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Needytoo Posted April 29, 2017 Share Posted April 29, 2017 You and your SO are in my thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
imissdow Posted April 29, 2017 Share Posted April 29, 2017 Seriously! So unfair! I am so sorry huh and prayers!, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canadiangirl Posted May 4, 2017 Share Posted May 4, 2017 nonesuch, I am so sorry to hear this. You are in my thoughts. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Suki1 Posted May 5, 2017 Share Posted May 5, 2017 Oh, Nonesuch, I'm so sorry. I wish I could do more than write words – they seem so inadequate. I'm thinking of you and your SO, and sending hugs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bunny Posted August 17, 2017 Share Posted August 17, 2017 nonesuch is in my thoughts quite a bit...wondering how they are doing... seeing that her status has changed from member to guest makes my heart sink. Does anyone on here know her irl? If you have any kind of updates, please share. I'm worried about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hachi Posted September 13, 2018 Share Posted September 13, 2018 Thinking of Nonesuch today with the Maine Bago coming up. Don't know if she checks in anymore, but maybe the post will notify her? Maybe not because she comes up as guest. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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