BrokenHeart2 Posted December 29, 2015 Share Posted December 29, 2015 I too am green with envy!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 Jen I have to post a stuffed animal clip. Don't worry it's non insinuating ; ) Â Â Â Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
widowat33 Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 I was talking with a friend today who had left an abusive marriage years ago. We started talking about sex, and I have been feeling bad for myself lately because it has been so long, so I asked her how long it had been for her..she held up ten fingers, I said ten months? Nope ten years! Ten friggin years. Now I don't feel so bad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Torn Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I was talking with a friend today who had left an abusive marriage years ago. We started talking about sex, and I have been feeling bad for myself lately because it has been so long, so I asked her how long it had been for her..she held up ten fingers, I said ten months? Nope ten years! Ten friggin years. Now I don't feel so bad. Â Heck just reading that made me feel better... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lcoxwell Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Given the fact that my Kenneth's physical disabilities prevented such things for several years before he died, added to the fact that I have been widowed for nearly two years, AND New Guy and I are waiting until we get married this Summer, it is has been right at 10 years for me, too. Not that I am counting, or anything, but in exactly 100 days from today, I will be breaking my 10 year "dry spell". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted March 3, 2016 Share Posted March 3, 2016 Oh boy, I hope your fianc?e knows to be well rested going into your wedding night! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lcoxwell Posted March 4, 2016 Share Posted March 4, 2016 Oh boy, I hope your fianc?e knows to be well rested going into your wedding night!  I promise not to be too hard on him. I don't want to break him on the wedding night and not be able to enjoy the rest of the honeymoon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted March 4, 2016 Share Posted March 4, 2016 If I posted what I really, really, really need right now, this site would immediately be reclassified as porn. FML. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgo Posted March 5, 2016 Share Posted March 5, 2016 If I posted what I really, really, really need right now, this site would immediately be reclassified as porn. FML.  I was told that this thread at the old site was very descriptive like that lol.  I'm hoping to have some fun tonight. We'll see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jess Posted March 6, 2016 Share Posted March 6, 2016 If I posted what I really, really, really need right now, this site would immediately be reclassified as porn. FML. Â I was told that this thread at the old site was very descriptive like that lol. Â Yes, that is the point! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgo Posted March 7, 2016 Share Posted March 7, 2016 Maybe we should spice up this thread! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wheelerswife Posted March 7, 2016 Share Posted March 7, 2016 Oh, for the old YWBB folks, this thread got really, really racy. Anyone remember Russell?  Maureen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Portside Posted March 7, 2016 Share Posted March 7, 2016 Anyone remember Russell?  Sure do!  But Nutella, a lasso, ass-less chaps and peacock feathers are a bit outside of my wheelhouse.  But I suppose I could be talked into it. I've done worse for less money.  Be careful out there - always remember if it gets too out of hand, the EMTs will see you when you are helpless.  Just say'n.  Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jen Posted March 7, 2016 Share Posted March 7, 2016 Okay, well, here's a question, then: what constitutes sex? Because if it's traditional intercourse, it's been 23 months and 5 days since I had sex. If we expand the definition a bit, it has still been 13 months and 18 days since anyone touched me intimately. THAT IS TOO LONG AND I AM GOING INSANE. I can accept a lot of things about widowhood, but this celibacy shit is for the birds. The DIY thing is NOT cutting it. If I didn't live with my mom and three kids, I swear I'd be surfing Craig's List or Tinder for hook ups. (Well, also if I weren't such a lamentable coward.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jess Posted March 8, 2016 Share Posted March 8, 2016 Guess that depends on what you enjoyed 13 months ago... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lcoxwell Posted March 8, 2016 Share Posted March 8, 2016 Okay, well, here's a question, then: what constitutes sex? Â That is a good question. While it has been 10 years, since I have had "traditional intercourse", I have to admit that my Kenneth was quite creative with the use of his tongue, fingers, and toys to make up for the fact that he wasn't physically able to have sex in the "traditional" sense of the word, anymore. Still, in the last few years, he wasn't feeling up to even the "creative" intimacy, but I could recalculate my earlier numbers, at least, so it doesn't sound quite so bad as 10 FREAKING YEARS! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgo Posted March 8, 2016 Share Posted March 8, 2016 It was almost 18 months before I had any type of intimate contact and that wasn't intercourse. I think now that I've had sex the urge is even more intense than it was during those 18 months. I miss the consistency and availability not being in a committed relationship. Thursday was the last time I had sex and it felt amazing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lcoxwell Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Thursday was the last time I had sex and it felt amazing.  Rub it in, why don't you?  Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trying Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Virgo I have often said that if the single men knew about the sex drives of widows they would all be lined up at our doors! I've been with NG for almost 2 years and it continues to be just as intense, for all of the challenges he faces dating a widow at least he gets this one bonus! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgo Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Thursday was the last time I had sex and it felt amazing.  Rub it in, why don't you?  Well, I had sex yesterday and today looks favorable!! Lol We might meet up this afternoon and again this evening. Definitely this evening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daysofelijah Posted March 9, 2016 Share Posted March 9, 2016 Virgo I have often said that if the single men knew about the sex drives of widows they would all be lined up at our doors! I've been with NG for almost 2 years and it continues to be just as intense, for all of the challenges he faces dating a widow at least he gets this one bonus!  Absolutely, every day and then some if I could, lol. Unfortunately with 6 children between the two of us, we're lucky to find private time once or twice a week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lcoxwell Posted March 10, 2016 Share Posted March 10, 2016 Well, I had sex yesterday and today looks favorable!! Lol We might meet up this afternoon and again this evening. Definitely this evening.  Hahahahahahahaha! This made my whole day! I so needed this laugh today. (I hope you had a really good time. Someone should at least be enjoying themselves!)  By the way, I am now down to 93 days, until I will be having sex. I have already warned New Guy that I have really good cardio fitness, that I am incredibly flexible and bendy for a woman my age, that I have all kinds of sexy lingerie ready and waiting, and that he should be fully prepared to have a very busy honeymoon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Virgo Posted March 14, 2016 Share Posted March 14, 2016 93 days ... you're going to wear each other out.  I'm not sure when I'll be seeing my guy this week. Hopefully tomorrow! We were both out of town this weekend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrokenHeart2 Posted March 14, 2016 Share Posted March 14, 2016 Wow, has this thread ever gone off the rails. I thought the topic was 'what are you needing' not what are you getting. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
momtokam Posted March 14, 2016 Share Posted March 14, 2016 I'm in a tropical destination with my kids and another family. I keep looking around and thinking everyone is getting action tonight except me!!! 😨 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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