BrokenHeart2

Awe lost35, I get it. Last summer I was on my way home and a guy went by on a bike and I swore it could have been DH. It was everything I could do not to turn around and chase him down. I lost it in the car. I'm sorry you never got to have that final closure. Giant hugs to you.

((Big giant hugs to you)). May your mind find peace tonight?

So sorry you are stuggling. I wish I had kids here to distract me. Grass is always greener on the other side isn't it. Widda mindf_uck is all

My dog died 4 months after DH coming up on Wed. My life just sucks shit. I'm here alone. Enjoy having you wee ones with you! :'(

Thank you. I have been a bit of a wreck since Thursday night but I guess that is to be expected. I have to drive by the cemetery to get home and I feel like shit because I feel like he doesn't belong in the ground but in the house with me. This widow shit is such a mind f_ck. Baby steps I guess.

Cherish your last months, weeks days together. Hugs to you and your family.

At 28 months out oh how I remember people giving unsolicited advice and I said 'I lost my DH not my brain'. I took care of myself very well before I met him (at 32yrs old) and I will do so after when I finally find out just who the f_ck I am now that he is gone. Yes, I too am very selective of who I talk to about stuff to get advice or about my grief. So few get it. Love the dick implant line! Hugs

Hi TJ Yes we do get it here. I have always said this widow journey sure is a mind f_ck for sure. I haven't found or seeked a ch2 but I wouldn't be a bit surprised if I did the same thing would happen to me. May you find peace and happiness in your journey with you ch2 Hugs

Wow, 54 views and no comments. I think it's because this is a biggie! I can't offer advice because I have none. My you find the best way for you and your family to move forward. Best of luck to you and your family and your new husband Big hugs to you.

Must have been hard HO and totally understandable. I get it! My first wedding will be Oct 31. My stepson is the best man, step daughter is a bridesmaid and crazy ex wife of DH will be there. Ugh, but I will go for 'our' kids. Don't know how long I'll last after the dinner but I'll do my best for them. We are widow strong!

Hugs to you DebW

Hugs to you Fran.

Well today we finally buried my Dear Husbands ashes in the local cemetery where I will go right beside him too. It's been almost 28 months. Stepkids (28 and 25)and I picked the spot 1.5 yrs ago but I just couldn't bring myself to make the final call to dig the hole. I finally did it then had DHs family ( only 2 sisters left) here for a BBQ dinner. It was a lovely evening and he would be so proud of all of us. I have felt so stuck lately and I'm hoping this may help me 'get on with it'. Time will tell. We all work to our own timeline eh.

Awe SB. Big giant hugs to you. Probably feels like an eternity and yesterday at the same time.

Oh Jen, I'm happy for you! My DH too had the most beautiful blues eyes too . I used to tease him about his bedroom eyes lol! It must have been such a bittersweet day for you. Blessings to you.

Hah TS too funny! I don't do vermine either. Mousetrap and all go in the garbage! Nope, not doing it!

I believe. Hugs to you AW. I'm sorry to hear about you FIL.

Sorry to hear it's been rough, I hear you RIF, this all sucks!

Yup feeling the same and actually I was thinking the same thing about an hour ago. Here alone and my life still feels shattered. Something has got to change. I know I'm the one that has to change it, damn, I'm just tired of doing everything alone. Hugs to my fellow wids on this dark gloomy Sat night. This too shall pass.

Donna, you need to have an honest talk with your Sister. It's that simple. Just do it! Does your brother live closer and it's only details? Or is it more in your head? I know, it's all f'ed and it hurts! Peace to you!

Way to go linda5. Classy all the way!

In my marriage when we weren't intimate the sex waned but when we got the intimacy back ( like all marriages ebb and flow) it was awesome! I miss everything about him and our marriage. Even the hard times becuase that's what brought us together even more. We got through it together. Sex is important but so are so many other aspects of marriage that intertwine living in a marriage.

Excellent! Didn't have a bad relationship but we had our struggles. Either way it is still a wonderful statement!

Wow, yes that is profound and does sum it up. Thank you WW. A lot easier said than done.

Being a Canadian, I still knew that he was VP. I have admired him, I was just taken aback with the video clip I watched about him telling about his sons medal and I didn't realize it was already public. I thought he was running for President, pardon my ignorance. Really 'Google is your friend'. A tad much, I know all about Google and the Internet thanks.